
When women’s pain goes unheard: chronic pelvic pain and sexual violence
Today, we’re speaking to Cate McCarter and Amanda Williams. We’re here to discuss the research they’ve recently published here in the BJGP titled, ‘Understanding chronic pelvic pain in women survivors of sexual violence: a qualitative study’. Title of paper: Understanding chronic pelvic pain in women survivors of sexual violence: a qualitative study Available at: https://doi.org/10.3399/BJGP.2026.0057 Chronic pelvic pain (CPP) is common and can be difficult to treat. Some women with CPP are survivors of sexual violence. How such women understood their pain was strongly influenced by feeling ignored by doctors and shamed by both CPP and sexual violence. According to women in our study, a ‘good enough’ response from GPs involved being seen as a whole person, being asked about sexual violence, pain being adequately investigated, and the GP acknowledging what is not understood about CPP and sexual violence. This allowed the negotiation of a pain explanation that validated the woman’s experience and integrated her social context with medical results, delivered with empathy and understanding. Transcript This transcript was generated using AI and has not been reviewed for accuracy. Please be aware it may contain errors or omissions. Speaker A 00:00:00.240 - 00:00:56.560 Hi, and welcome to BJGP Interviews. I'm Nada Khan and I'm the senior research editor here at the bjgp. Thanks for listening to this podcast today. In today's episode, we're Speaking to Kate McCarter, a clinical psychologist and Professor Amanda Williams. Amanda is emeritus professor of Clinical Health psychology based at ucl, and we're here to discuss the paper that they've recently published here in the bjgp, which is titled Understanding Chronic Pelvic Pain in Women Survivors of Sexual Violence A Qualitative Study. So, Kate, I think I'll start with you. And we were talking just about, you know, how important this work is, and perhaps we could just start by talking about why you wanted to explore the experiences of women with chronic pelvic pain who have also experienced sexual violence. What did you feel was missing from what we already know in this area? Speaker B 00:00:57.650 - 00:02:15.360 Yeah, I suppose the. I approached this research topic with anecdotal evidence, having worked with survivors of nursing and sexual violence for about 10 years before I started researching this. Just anecdotal evidence that lots of women also lived with chronic pelvic pain. And I didn't, you know, I hadn't any thoughts about the association really, or whether it was causal or what, but I just noticed that the women I was supporting before training as a psychologist, they were living with chronic pelvic pain, and a lot of them had found it very difficult to seek health care and to receive health care for that. So I just started speaking to Amanda about that, and from our conversations, we started thinking about the meaning of pain and how there's an established association within the literature about chronic pain, chronic pelvic pain after sexual violence. But what's the meaning of that for the women who live with it? That felt missing. And because meaning, personal meaning, is so key to understanding a personal lived experience of pain, it felt like a gap that we could begin to address by asking women, how do you make sense of the pain that you're living with? Came from there, really. Speaker A 00:02:15.440 - 00:02:24.400 And your background is as a clinical psychologist. So interpreting what pain means is quite a personal thing for a lot of women, isn't it? I guess. Speaker B 00:02:24.480 - 00:03:23.180 Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. Is very personal and. And complex as well. The. The attempts to understand exactly what pain means to a woman is, you know, you take into account those experiences of trauma very often, but not always, and you take into account the social context and what's going on around them, how sort of how they've come to be in the situation they're in. So, yeah, it is Highly personal and effective treatment can't really start until that's understood because the way that a woman will approach her attempts to seek health care is very much led by how she makes sense of it. So if she's. Some of the women in the study linked it to surviving sexual violence, then the meaning is wrapped up in that. Has she disclosed that to her healthcare provider? Does she feel able to. It's an incredibly difficult thing to talk about. Has she been asked? So, so yeah, very personal, absolutely. Speaker C 00:03:23.820 - 00:04:12.840 And I think often sort of co created in the encounter with healthcare professionals and that can go either way and in the paper are examples of both. But women are looking for information and understanding to incorporate into the meanings of pain and that doesn't always happen. Or they get multiple different accounts which are incompatible. People really struggle. I mean, I've worked in pain for 35 years and I hear this in all sorts of pain, but I think particularly where there isn't anything very definite, no tissue damage to identify, nothing to show for it, as it were. Speaker A 00:04:12.920 - 00:04:36.579 And this is a really sensitive area. And you interviewed 10 women about both their pain and their experiences of sex, sexual violence. I just wanted to touch on how you approached these conversations and how you learned from listening to women in this way, sort of taking both of these things into account. And we'll go a little bit more in depth into the themes that you discovered. But yeah, just as a sort of overview. I wonder if you wanted to comment on that. Speaker B 00:04:36.739 - 00:05:54.960 I suppose it started with I believe that you've been sexually assaulted. There was no question about that. And I think the reason I say that is because that's. That's often disbelieved or dismissed or minimized by anyone. It's not specific to healthcare at. By anyone that a woman tells about her experience. So I think it started from that even before we had a conversation. The advertisement, the information sheet about consenting into the study was. I tried to make it as validating as possible. It was an opportunity to talk in depth about a topic, topics that are taboo, that are not spoken about, that are shamefully hidden. And I think giving women the opportunity in a space where they felt believed meant that women perhaps relaxed into the conversation as we got talking. I think also it helped that it was a semi structured interview so I was very much able to follow where that woman was going. But I think also the women were so motivated to talk to me, they really encouraged me to publish. I wasn't. I don't love writing. Amanda's very good at writing. I don't love it, but I really wanted to do it for them. I said I would and therefore I did. Speaker A 00:05:55.360 - 00:06:05.120 And one of your main themes was attempts at silencing women. What did women mean by that and what were they experiencing when they tried to get healthcare for their pain? Speaker B 00:06:05.600 - 00:07:28.130 So this, this was a finding that really fitted with both experiences of pain and of surviving sexual violence. And women were talking about being actively told not to talk about those things. So sometimes they're disclosed to a family member and they'd been told, I don't believe you, or don't talk about that. That's just something that women have to go through. But also, unfortunately, some encounters with health care professionals as well. So not being believed, not being asked as well. That was a really significant part of some of the women's narratives, that if you don't ask, then I won't tell you. And that's, that's not a new finding that's fairly established within primary care. The women in this study really just backed up that finding that women want to be asked that it's, it facilitates disclosure of difficult experiences, sexual violence being one of those. So if they'd, if they'd been asked, then they were more likely to disclose. But, yeah, it's the responses to that disclosure that were, that was silencing and that fitting within a societal context of minimizing sexual violence, of minimizing particularly women's pain, particularly in the pelvic area. And the message of just get on with it, really. Speaker A 00:07:28.850 - 00:07:44.440 And I wonder just a little bit, I mean, that comes through quite strongly, that experience of not being believed or of having pain attributed to mental health problems. But why do you have any thoughts, either of you, about why that happens, particularly with chronic pelvic pain in women? Speaker B 00:07:44.840 - 00:07:46.120 What do you think, Amanda? Speaker C 00:07:46.680 - 00:09:04.999 Well, it's very common for any chronic pain to be attributed because even if there are some detectable signs, which there very rarely are in chronic pelvic pain, the pain doesn't match those, the pattern doesn't match. And women have always been accused of exaggerating what's wrong with them, fussing a lot, not understanding their bodies and so on. And there are, you know, both lay and scientific theories of psychosomatic pain, which are just nonsense. You know, if one understands the, the science of pain, pain's an emotional experience as much as a sensory one. It's aversive, it's emotional. And so having a model that tries to split the physical and the psychological makes no sense at all. But that model being used makes women often and this came up in the paper makes women quite unwilling to say, well, when I'm stressed, it's worse, or when I'm upset, it's worse, or when I'm having a really nice time with friends. I realize I haven't been aware of my pain because that feels like it fits into this either or model, which is so unhelpful. So unhelpful. Speaker A 00:09:05.370 - 00:09:19.850 And I was struck in the paper by the distinction between treating the symptoms and treating the whole woman. And your participants talked about that. What do you think that the women in your study felt was missing when their care was fragmented in that way? Speaker B 00:09:20.490 - 00:10:05.590 Well, an understanding of them as a whole person really, as they said. So if their pain was more attributed to psychological reasons, they might be completely denied physical investigation. So not a single test, not a single examination offered and even refused. And then everything bounced back to the. The mental health team. So we can't do anything for her physical pain because it's all psychological. And as Amanda said, that just doesn't make sense. And it is incredibly frustrating for everyone involved because it, it's disempowering for the. For the woman first and foremost. But also it means that the, you know, the mental health team are really stuck as well. It just. It's just really unhelpful, particularly because, I. Speaker C 00:10:05.590 - 00:10:48.840 Mean, people think of pain as a sign of damage. And of course, lots of pains are a sign of damage, and we respond appropriately. But not every pain is a sign of damage. It can be a sign of the whole system having got stuck on pain. And also after rape and sexual assault, women can feel damaged. And I think it's really important to reassure women otherwise they're likely to go on worrying that something awful has happened. I mean, many women who seek hysterectomy, it turns out, you know, are feeling that they have in some way been damaged, and they think the only way to deal with chronic pelvic pain is to get rid of the uterus. Speaker B 00:10:49.240 - 00:10:57.920 And some of the women did speak about. Speak to that, really, didn't they? That my. Just a complete fear that their body was rotten, defective. Didn't. Speaker C 00:10:57.920 - 00:10:58.240 Yes. Speaker B 00:10:58.240 - 00:11:04.740 Anymore. And even that, you know, one of the women who talked along that theme had training in healthcare. Speaker A 00:11:04.900 - 00:11:21.140 And your third theme is really interesting. So that woman's place in. Is in the resistance. And there was a sense of women really having to fight to be heard, as we've talked about, and to find appropriate care. What do you think that says about the way our healthcare systems are working, that women feel that way? Speaker B 00:11:21.460 - 00:13:17.590 Yeah, such A strong theme of women just pushing, pushing, pushing. Yeah, well, I think it speaks to. To women's pain being dismissed, to being normalized. Women live with pain. That's just normal. There's not particularly anything we can do about this. But also I suppose that failure to integrate, as Amanda's already spoken to, that failure to integrate mental and physical health teams, the fact that they are so separate, that a pain clinic is not found in every corner of the uk and the multidisciplinary approach to understanding pain is not the norm. I think it also speaks to. Perhaps in the paper we speak about rape culture and rape myths and the way that we are all, as members of society, are subject to the same, you know, narratives, unhelpful and true narratives around true victims, you know, perpetrators, what a real rape is and how there was, you know, difficulty to get past that for some women, that this is something that I'm, you know, I have been through and was difficult because it was rape, for example. And it's also, I suppose, how busy GPs are. There was very much that recognition that GPs are busy, that they have very limited time to spend exploring the complexity of a woman's presentation and may feel really ill equipped to respond, which, again, is not a new finding, but it's been spoken about in other spaces. But perhaps a training need and a systemic problem to do with how we approach trauma and how we think about trauma, informed care and how we put that into practice, because we know. We know what. What works. We know that, but there's something that's stopping that happening. And I expect that's to do with time, resources, confidence and. Yeah, the medical model and a limited understanding of pain dominating. Speaker C 00:13:19.030 - 00:13:52.830 I think. I think that's true. And what came out of this, and I've seen in many other pain studies, is interviewees. Participants are very able to say what constituted good care and to give credit for it. They're very keen to do so and to say what they need. And it's not unlimited time or unlimited treatment, which I think is a fear of understandable fear of a healthcare professional. It's often much simpler about listening and respect and integration. Speaker A 00:13:53.390 - 00:14:15.870 And one thing that you found was that many women hadn't been asked about sexual violence, even though when there were some indications that previous trauma might be relevant. And just from your background, I wonder if you feel that gps should routinely be asking about sexual violence when women present with chronic pelvic pain and if you have any ideas about how gps can do that sensitively. Speaker B 00:14:16.520 - 00:14:23.080 Yeah, I think there's so many different points in a woman's journey towards health care that, that it would be appropriate to ask. Speaker C 00:14:23.560 - 00:14:24.080 I don't know. Speaker B 00:14:24.080 - 00:16:13.760 I'm a bit wary of saying routinely ask about anything because then it loses its thinking power, doesn't it?
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