Why We Took Our Autistic Daughter OUT of School | Ryan
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Ryan opens up about his daughter Monroe's autism journey from early developmental signs his wife spotted before anyone else believed her, to self-harming behaviours at nursery, a brutal fight to get Monroe into a SEND school, and the moment they realised mainstream schooling wasn't right for her anymore.
This conversation covers the messy, unfiltered reality of parenting a child with complex needs: sleepless nights, sensory overwhelm, the guilt of feeling "useless" as a dad, and the system that often leaves families to fight alone.
🧩 In this episode:
📝 The early signs everyone dismissed until they couldn't be ignored
😢 Four months of "hell" getting Monroe settled into her SEND school
🚫 Why they made the hard call to pull her out of school entirely
🏡 Their experience with Elective Home Education (EHE) for a child with complex needs
💛 How Monroe is thriving now happier, eating, sleeping, more regulated
👰 Planning a wedding around an autistic child's sensory needs
🗣️ A dad's honest take on grief, guilt, and finally feeling like "the whole world isn't ending"
If you're a parent navigating a similar diagnosis, an EHCP battle, or wondering whether school is really the right environment for your child this one's for you.
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