UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

417. Coaching Hotline: Codependency & Anger

Aug 26, 2025 · 11 min · Episode 417 · 16.9 MBExplicit
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In this Coaching Hotline episode, I answer two relationship questions—one about wanting more time with your partner, the other about lingering anger when your needs feel unmet. Both reveal the same underlying problem: telling yourself you should feel differently. You’ll learn how to explore your anger and anxiety without adding guilt or shame. Plus, I show you how thought work can be used to get out of cycles of self-blame and to make choices about relationships from a place of insight rather than reaction.

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