They Think It's All Sober

They Think It's All Sober Podcast

Join Jamie and Tom each week as they interview musicians, artists, influencers and athletes about cutting alcohol and other substances from their lives.

Hear about how they did it, their motivations and the benefits of sobriety, with a few gory stories of the sesh along the way.

Jamie and Tom are also joined weekly by counsellor / psychotherapist David Gibbs to give professional context to the discussions and provide some great resources for people looking to change their relationship with alcohol.

No preaching, no judgement, just honesty.

They Think It’s All Sober, it is now!

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20 episodes
Updated Thursday
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Episodes20

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Thursday · 1 hr 20 min
Kaitlin Reeve - The Double Life
How do you hide a cocaine addiction when you’re the person everyone depends on? This week, we’re joined by Kaitlin Reeve, the creator behind @soberasamotherfocused, for one of our most raw conversations yet. Kaitlin opens up about living a double life as a mother battling cocaine addiction, the lies she told herself, the fear of being exposed, and how quickly everything she cared about came close to falling apart. We talk about the guilt of parenting while in active addiction, the stigma that keeps so many mothers silent, and the moment she realised she had to choose between continuing down a path that was destroying her or fighting for the life she wanted. This is an unflinching conversation about addiction, shame, recovery and redemption. It’s a reminder that addiction doesn’t discriminate and that no matter how dark things become, there is always a way back. Sponsored by Alcohol Change UK https://alcoholchange.org.uk/ . Ultra Events https://alcoholchange.org.uk/get-involved/fundraise/take-on-a-challenge/ultra-events . Cutback Challenge https://alcoholchange.org.uk/help-and-support/managing-your-drinking/try-dry-anytime-cut-back-challenge Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
July 23 · 43 min
Relapse, Blips & Starting Again: What Happens Next?
A relapse doesn’t erase your progress, and a blip doesn’t have to become a full return to old habits. In this episode, we talk honestly about what happens when things don’t go to plan, why shame keeps so many people stuck, and how to get back on track without writing yourself off. Whether you’ve slipped, you’re supporting someone who has, or you’re living with the fear that it might happen one day, this is a conversation about honesty, compassion, and remembering that recovery isn’t about perfection; it’s about what you do next. Sponsored by Alcohol Change UK https://alcoholchange.org.uk/ . Ultra Events https://alcoholchange.org.uk/get-involved/fundraise/take-on-a-challenge/ultra-events . Cutback Challenge https://alcoholchange.org.uk/help-and-support/managing-your-drinking/try-dry-anytime-cut-back-challenge Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
July 16 · 1 hr 27 min
Hannah Viney - A Class A(DHD) Person
This week, Jamie and Tom sit down with the host of Class A People to talk about addiction, how quickly drugs can take a hold on your life, and the long road back. Hannah opens up about rebuilding her life from scratch, how recovery led her to create one of the UK’s most honest platforms for conversations around addiction, and why she’s determined to challenge the stigma that still exists. They also dive into life with adult ADHD, how it intersects with addiction and recovery, and the realities of trying to build a career and a sense of self when your brain works differently. It’s a conversation about resilience, identity, and proving that your lowest point doesn’t have to define the rest of your life.
July 9 · 43 min
Figuring Out Who You Are Sober
“It’s coming home…” or is it? As England once again dares to dream, Jamie and Tom use football fever as the perfect jumping-off point for a much bigger conversation about identity, hope, and who we become when we strip away the things that used to define us. Getting sober isn’t just about giving something up. It’s about figuring out who you actually are without alcohol. What do you enjoy? What do you stand for? And how do you build a life that genuinely feels like yours? This week, Jamie and Tom dive into the surprising strength that comes from saying yes to new experiences, stepping outside your comfort zone and rediscovering joy. But they also explore something that’s just as important: knowing when to say no. Setting boundaries, protecting your peace, and realising that sobriety isn’t about pleasing everyone. It’s about being true to yourself. Whether England finally brings it home or not, this episode is all about finding your own way home, to yourself. Sponsored by Alcohol Change UK https://alcoholchange.org.uk/ Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
July 2 · 1 hr 12 min
Nobody Talks About This Part Of Sobriety...
Our sober psychotherapist, David Gibbs, is back!! David returns with a fresh perspective on life 13+ years into sobriety! Together, he, Jamie and Tom have a raw and honest conversation about missing the fun of drinking, where to find excitement without alcohol, and why a little hedonism might not be such a bad thing after all... Plus, the boys answer your listener questions! Sponsored by Alcohol Change UK https://alcoholchange.org.uk/ . Royal Parks Half Marathon https://alcoholchange.org.uk/get-involved/fundraise/take-on-a-challenge/running/royal-parks-half-marathon?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=fundraising_and_engagement&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast&utm_content=royal_parks_half_marathon . Tough Mudder https://alcoholchange.org.uk/get-involved/fundraise/take-on-a-challenge/tough-mudder?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=fundraising_and_engagement&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast&utm_content=tough_mudder . Try Dry https://alcoholchange.org.uk/alcohol-facts/interactive-tools/the-dry-january-app-1?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=behaviour_change&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
June 25 · 56 min
Danny Howard: Making The Effort
BBC Radio 1 DJ Danny Howard joins Jamie and Tom to chat about taking a year off alcohol, dipping in and out of sobriety, finding what works for him, and why non-alcoholic drinks have become a game changer! Sponsored by Alcohol Change UK https://alcoholchange.org.uk/ . Great North Run https://alcoholchange.org.uk/get-involved/fundraise/take-on-a-challenge/running/great-north-run?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=fundraising_and_engagement&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast&utm_content=great_north_run . Royal Parks Half Marathon https://alcoholchange.org.uk/get-involved/fundraise/take-on-a-challenge/running/royal-parks-half-marathon?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=fundraising_and_engagement&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast&utm_content=royal_parks_half_marathon . Rise And Raise https://alcoholchange.org.uk/get-involved/campaigns/alcohol-awareness-week-1/support-donate-fundraise?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=fundraising_and_engagement&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast&utm_content=rise_and_raise Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
June 18 · 46 min
Can You Do The World Cup Sober?
It's a Jamie & Tom World Cup Special! The boys reflect on their experiences of navigating World Cups and football sober! Sharing what's changed, how they deal with the pressure to drink, and advice on what's helped them for anyone wanting to enjoy the tournament booze free Sponsored by Alcohol Change UK https://alcoholchange.org.uk/ . Tough Mudder https://alcoholchange.org.uk/get-involved/fundraise/take-on-a-challenge/tough-mudder?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=fundraising_and_engagement&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast&utm_content=tough_mudder . Rise and Raise https://alcoholchange.org.uk/get-involved/campaigns/alcohol-awareness-week-1/support-donate-fundraise?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=fundraising_and_engagement&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast&utm_content=rise_and_raise . Try Dry https://alcoholchange.org.uk/alcohol-facts/interactive-tools/the-dry-january-app-1?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=behaviour_change&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
June 11 · 1 hr 14 min
Guvna B: Everyone Knew A Different Version Of Me
Rapper & author Guvna B joins the boys for a real conversation about addiction, identity and recovery Guvna B shares his struggle with porn addiction, entering rehab, living behind multiple versions of himself, and learning to face shame and embarrassment rather than hide from it. They explore the links between religion, addiction and self-worth, and why true freedom begins when you stop hiding and face the truth Sponsored by Alcohol Change UK https://alcoholchange.org.uk/ . Great North Run https://alcoholchange.org.uk/get-involved/fundraise/take-on-a-challenge/running/great-north-run?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=fundraising_and_engagement&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast&utm_content=great_north_run . Try Dry App: https://alcoholchange.org.uk/alcohol-facts/interactive-tools/the-dry-january-app-1?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=behaviour_change&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast . Royal Parks Half Marathon https://alcoholchange.org.uk/get-involved/fundraise/take-on-a-challenge/running/royal-parks-half-marathon?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=fundraising_and_engagement&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast&utm_content=royal_parks_half_marathon Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
June 4 · 44 min
Jamie's 4 Years, A Reflection
This week it's a Jamie and Tom special - catching up on life, sobriety and confessions! The boys reflect on Jamie reaching 4 years alcohol free, the biggest changes sobriety has brought to his life, and why the benefits keep revealing themselves years down the line! Plenty of laughs, alot of gratitude and the usual honest chat from two mates navigating life without alcohol! Sponsored by Alcohol Change UK https://alcoholchange.org.uk/ . Try Dry App: https://alcoholchange.org.uk/alcohol-facts/interactive-tools/the-dry-january-app-1?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=behaviour_change&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast . Rasselbock Marathon: https://alcoholchange.org.uk/get-involved/fundraise/take-on-a-challenge/running/rasselbock-marathon-and-half?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=fundraising_and_engagement&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast . Take 25 Challenge: https://alcoholchange.org.uk/get-involved/fundraise/your-fundraising-at-work-or-in-the-community/fundraise-your-way-alcohol-changes-a-to-z/take-25?utm_source=partner&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=fundraising_and_engagement&utm_id=they_think_its_all_sober_podcast Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
May 28 · 1 hr 12 min
Jim White: Reward Drinking, Regret & Recovery
Jamie and Tom are back for Season 9! And they've only gone and got legendary football broadcaster Jim White! Jim joins us for a brutally honest conversation about alcohol, fame, football culture and the moment he finally decided enough was enough! From interviewing Bowie and McCartney to waking up wondering who he’d let down, Jim reflects on the highs, the regrets and the clarity that came with getting sober! Sponsored by Alcohol Change UK https://alcoholchange.org.uk/ Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
March 19 · 1 hr 24 min
Richard Piper (Alcohol Change UK): The Desire To Survive
This week on we’re joined by Alcohol Change UK CEO, Richard Piper! A man who once loved pub culture so much he’d bring his baby daughter along just to sneak in a pint. Fast forward, and working at Alcohol Change opened his eyes to the real impact of booze… and he ended up going sober for good! The boys talk about why today’s 'drink-anytime' delivery culture is a trap, noticing triggers, and how to actually set goals that stick if you’re thinking about cutting back! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
March 12 · 44 min
Whats Grinding Our Gears?
Jamie and Tom dive into the parts of sobriety that can really grind your gears! From anxiety and awkward interactions to the price of alcohol-free drinks! They share the little frustrations that come with living sober... The parts of sobriety people don’t always talk about, and why they’re still worth navigating! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
March 5 · 1 hr 6 min
Wayne Lineker: Rehab Saved Me
Nightlife entrepreneur Wayne Lineker joins the boys for a chat about the highs and lows of the party lifestyle! Known for building iconic club brands and living life at the party, Wayne opens up about how years of heavy drinking and drugs led him to rehab. He shares what addiction cost him, what rehab taught him, and how he’s now rebuilding with new clarity & new mindset! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
February 26 · 44 min
Your Sober Questions Answered
Jamie and Tom open the floor and answer your biggest questions about sober life! How do you explain your sobriety to a partner who doesn't drink? What’s the best way to survive social events? And the big one… do we ever actually miss drinking? Listener-led questions answered here on this episode! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
February 19 · 1 hr 19 min
Sam West: I Didn't Plan To Stay Sober!
Sam West (sobriety influencer) didn’t plan to quit drinking forever! But after one mistake at work forced him to confront the truth, Sam decided to get he needed to stop drinking - but always believed he’d eventually return to alcohol... What he didn’t expect was how much his life would change In this episode, Sam tells Jamie about ignoring the warning signs, the moment everything caught up with him, and why improved relationships, self-respect, and clarity led him back to sobriety - this time for good! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
February 12 · 44 min
Tom Is 4 Years Sober!
Jamie joins Tom to reflect on four years of sobriety. They look back at the reasons they knew drinking had to stop, the times it felt like things could tip into addiction, and the mindset shifts that helped him keep choosing sobriety - especially when it wasn’t easy. Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
February 5 · 1 hr 19 min
Foy Vance: Is Sobriety The Greatest Adventure?
This week, Jamie and Tom sit down with acclaimed singer-songwriter Foy Vance for an honest conversation about sobriety. Foy shares the moment he realised alcohol was affecting him as a father, musician and person — and how, with the support of his family, he chose to step away from drinking. What he found wasn’t loss, but clarity, freedom and a completely new lease of life. Because we all know what drinking feels like… but have you ever explored what life feels like sober? Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
January 29 · 53 min
Fine Dining and Zero Whining?!
Dry January is over and we’re celebrating the only way we know how - with a sober dinner party! Jamie and Tom are joined by a brilliant mix of sober guests for their annual Dry Jan dinner, this year at Yauatcha in London. Around the table, they reflect on the impact of the month, the surprises, the challenges, and what they’re taking forward beyond January - all while proving you don’t need alcohol to have a proper night out Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
January 22 · 1 hr 5 min
Catherine Gray: Little Addictions
Catherine Gray is back on the podcast, this time with her brand new book Little Addictions! She joins Jamie and Tom to talk about a realisation she had 12 years into sobriety - that while she’d removed alcohol, a whole host of 'little addictions' had quietly taken its place. Catherine shares why we become addicted in the first place, the small habits many of us don’t even notice, and how they can still have a big impact on our lives. The conversation explores the science behind addiction and how we can rewire our brains through habits and behavioural thinking to create healthier replacements! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
January 15 · 39 min
Is Sobriety Dead?
Jamie and Tom sit down and get it all off their chests. Sobriety doesn’t feel the same anymore - so where’s the buzz gone? The boys open up about their current relationship with alcohol, the temptation to drink, and why they’re resetting on the reasons sobriety is still king. Plus, Jamie teases his sober wedding and shares the story behind his engagement! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com