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The Wedding Editors Podcast · September 30 · 8 min

Micro Wedding, Maximum Guilt

In this episode of The Wedding Editors Podcast, Yvonne Dixon talks about one of the trickiest conversations in micro wedding planning: how to keep your guest list small without leaving people feeling shut out. Through the story of a couple who capped their guest list at 40, Yvonne explores how extended family and old friends found out they weren't invited through social media, and why the hurt rarely comes from the smaller list itself. It comes from how people find out. Yvonne explains the difference between "we chose not to invite you" and "we didn't think about how you'd find out". She shares how couples can avoid the fallout by telling the people who might expect an invitation themselves, early and with a genuine reason, before the guest list becomes public. You'll also hear this episode's 3 Weddits, plus a Celebrity Confidential insight into why backlash rarely comes from a small wedding itself, and far more often from an exclusion list that becomes a public spectacle. This episode is for couples planning a micro or smaller wedding, and anyone dreading a difficult guest list conversation, who wants to protect relationships, avoid resentment and plan with more honesty, kindness and clarity. Your day. Your way. Without the wedding planning stress.

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In this episode of The Wedding Editors Podcast, Yvonne Dixon talks about one of the trickiest conversations in micro wedding planning: how to keep your guest list small without leaving people feeling shut out.

Through the story of a couple who capped their guest list at 40, Yvonne explores how extended family and old friends found out they weren't invited through social media, and why the hurt rarely comes from the smaller list itself. It comes from how people find out.

Yvonne explains the difference between "we chose not to invite you" and "we didn't think about how you'd find out". She shares how couples can avoid the fallout by telling the people who might expect an invitation themselves, early and with a genuine reason, before the guest list becomes public.

You'll also hear this episode's 3 Weddits, plus a Celebrity Confidential insight into why backlash rarely comes from a small wedding itself, and far more often from an exclusion list that becomes a public spectacle.

This episode is for couples planning a micro or smaller wedding, and anyone dreading a difficult guest list conversation, who wants to protect relationships, avoid resentment and plan with more honesty, kindness and clarity.

Your day. Your way. Without the wedding planning stress.

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