The ONE Thing · August 3 · 44 min

You’ll Never Get On Top of Everything (And That’s Okay) with Oliver Burkeman

There is no such thing as the perfect productivity system. No matter how optimized your day is, or how many AI agents you have running 24/7, the harsh reality is that you’ll never truly be caught up. And that’s good news. Oliver Burkeman wrote The Guardian's psychology column "This Column Will Change Your Life" for years before his four books on time and ambition. Four Thousand Weeks was an instant New York Times and Sunday Times bestseller, and his follow-up, Meditations for Mortals, is one of Jay's favorite reads of the last two years. Jay and Oliver take apart the fantasy underneath every productivity system: the day you're finally on top of everything. The more you optimize, the more work floods in to fill the space. It's the same reason widening a freeway attracts more cars. Burkeman, a self-described "old man yells at cloud" AI skeptic, has watched people feel guilty at family dinner because their AI agents are sitting idle. And the skill he says this all comes down to is one nobody teaches: "the tolerance of the anxiety of letting all the other things go undone for now." In this episode, you'll learn: - What to do if you're an anxious, insecure overachiever - Why it's so uncomfortable to do nothing - Whether to-do lists actually help - Why you'll have to say no to things you genuinely want - How much of your day you should plan in advance Chapters: (00:00) Introduction (01:02) Waiting for Real Life to Start (12:48) The Jevons Paradox (17:33) The Discomfort of Doing Nothing (20:57) The Productivity Paradox (30:03) Jay vs. Oliver on Time Blocking (33:58) Time Surfing: A Day With No Plan (39:19) Just Actually Do It Know someone who may find this episode helpful? Share it with them: https://the1thing.com/podcast-episode/youll-never-get-on-top-of-everything-and-thats-okay-with-oliver-burkeman/ *** Links & Resources: • Four Thousand Weeks by Oliver Burkeman • Meditations for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman • Follow Oliver Burkeman on X • Free Resources Produced by NOVA

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Oliver Burkeman wrote The Guardian's psychology column "This Column Will Change Your Life" for years before his four books on time and ambition. Four Thousand Weeks was an instant New York Times and Sunday Times bestseller, and his follow-up, Meditations for Mortals, is one of Jay's favorite reads of the last two years.

Jay and Oliver take apart the fantasy underneath every productivity system: the day you're finally on top of everything. The more you optimize, the more work floods in to fill the space. It's the same reason widening a freeway attracts more cars. Burkeman, a self-described "old man yells at cloud" AI skeptic, has watched people feel guilty at family dinner because their AI agents are sitting idle. And the skill he says this all comes down to is one nobody teaches: "the tolerance of the anxiety of letting all the other things go undone for now."

In this episode, you'll learn:

- What to do if you're an anxious, insecure overachiever

- Why it's so uncomfortable to do nothing

- Whether to-do lists actually help

- Why you'll have to say no to things you genuinely want

- How much of your day you should plan in advance

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:02) Waiting for Real Life to Start

(12:48) The Jevons Paradox

(17:33) The Discomfort of Doing Nothing

(20:57) The Productivity Paradox