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The Niche Is You · September 15 · 22 min

Love Is Also Learning How Someone Changes

In this episode we’ll talk about: Why loving someone for a long time means loving more than one version of them How familiarity can quietly replace curiosity in relationships Why growth doesn't automatically threaten a relationship—and can actually deepen it How to create room for two people to evolve without growing apart Why lasting intimacy requires repeatedly choosing to know the person who is actually in front of you now And more… START HERE… → Join The Niche Is You® — my Substack (22K+) — Weekly essays, the full workshop library, the private community + the Quarterly Challenges. → https://mattgottesman.substack.com/about NEW HERE… → 6 Days to Clarity Workshop — clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play. → https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life (FREE) CONNECT WITH ME… → Instagram — @mattgottesman → TikTok — @mattgottesman → YouTube — @mattgottesman RESOURCES… → Write • Design • Build — my Content Creator Studio & OS masterclass (Included when you join my Substack) — Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & income — CLICK HERE → Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE → Apparel — thenicheisyou.com OTHER RELATED EPISODES: Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest Step Apple: https://apple.co/3MB62Iu Spotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN

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In this episode we’ll talk about:

  • Why loving someone for a long time means loving more than one version of them
  • How familiarity can quietly replace curiosity in relationships
  • Why growth doesn't automatically threaten a relationship—and can actually deepen it
  • How to create room for two people to evolve without growing apart
  • Why lasting intimacy requires repeatedly choosing to know the person who is actually in front of you now
  • And more…

START HERE…

→ Join The Niche Is You® — my Substack (22K+) — Weekly essays, the full workshop library, the private community + the Quarterly Challenges.

→ https://mattgottesman.substack.com/about

NEW HERE…

→ 6 Days to Clarity Workshop — clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play.

→ https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life (FREE)

CONNECT WITH ME…

→ Instagram — @mattgottesman

→ TikTok — @mattgottesman

→ YouTube — @mattgottesman

RESOURCES…

→ Write • Design • Build — my Content Creator Studio & OS masterclass (Included when you join my Substack) — Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & income — CLICK HERE

→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE

→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.com

OTHER RELATED EPISODES:

Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest Step

Apple: https://apple.co/3MB62Iu

Spotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN

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