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The Niche Is You · July 30 · 20 min

Anyone Can Stand Beside You — The Person For You Will Protect Your Assignment

In this episode we’ll talk about: Why chemistry, connection, and attraction matter… but why they were never designed to be the primary filter for who you build a life with, and how using them as the primary filter often leads to relationships that struggle to hold what you're actually trying to build The concept of stewardship in relationships… what it means when one person is entrusted with the assignment God placed in the other, and why the right partner recognizes that assignment before they recognize anything else Why this principle isn't gendered… it applies equally to how a man chooses a woman and how a woman chooses a man, because both people are carrying something God placed inside them that requires stewardship from the other The specific signs of a partner who's built to steward the assignment… the way they treat what you're carrying, the way they protect your peace, the way they multiply what you build instead of consuming it What it means to choose from a place of purpose rather than a place of chemistry… and why doing this changes not just your relationship but the entire trajectory of your legacy And more… START HERE… → Join The Niche Is You® — my Substack (20K+) — Weekly essays, the full workshop library, the private community + the Quarterly Challenges. → https://mattgottesman.substack.com/about NEW HERE… → 6 Days to Clarity Workshop — clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play. → https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life (FREE) CONNECT WITH ME… → Instagram — @mattgottesman → TikTok — @mattgottesman → YouTube — @mattgottesman RESOURCES… → Write • Design • Build — my Content Creator Studio & OS masterclass (Included when you join my Substack) — Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & income — CLICK HERE → Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE → Apparel — thenicheisyou.com OTHER RELATED EPISODES: Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest Step Apple: https://apple.co/3MB62Iu Spotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN

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In this episode we’ll talk about:

  • Why chemistry, connection, and attraction matter… but why they were never designed to be the primary filter for who you build a life with, and how using them as the primary filter often leads to relationships that struggle to hold what you're actually trying to build
  • The concept of stewardship in relationships… what it means when one person is entrusted with the assignment God placed in the other, and why the right partner recognizes that assignment before they recognize anything else
  • Why this principle isn't gendered… it applies equally to how a man chooses a woman and how a woman chooses a man, because both people are carrying something God placed inside them that requires stewardship from the other
  • The specific signs of a partner who's built to steward the assignment… the way they treat what you're carrying, the way they protect your peace, the way they multiply what you build instead of consuming it
  • What it means to choose from a place of purpose rather than a place of chemistry… and why doing this changes not just your relationship but the entire trajectory of your legacy
  • And more…

START HERE…

→ Join The Niche Is You® — my Substack (20K+) — Weekly essays, the full workshop library, the private community + the Quarterly Challenges.

https://mattgottesman.substack.com/about

NEW HERE…

6 Days to Clarity Workshop — clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play.

https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life (FREE)

CONNECT WITH ME…

→ Instagram — @mattgottesman

→ TikTok — @mattgottesman

→ YouTube — @mattgottesman

RESOURCES…

→ Write • Design • Build — my Content Creator Studio & OS masterclass (Included when you join my Substack) — Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & income — CLICK HERE

→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE

→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.com

OTHER RELATED EPISODES:

Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest Step

Apple: https://apple.co/3MB62Iu

Spotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN

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