The Kam Perspective

How to Mind Your Business

Tuesday · 9 min · 9.2 MB
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Hey kids this is a “how to mind your business” video. I think one of the most overlooked signs of emotional maturity is realizing that not every thought, opinion, or emotional reaction deserves to become someone else’s problem.A lot of people mistake personal discomfort for moral responsibility. They see someone wearing something they wouldn’t wear, believing something they don’t believe, or living differently than they would—and suddenly feel the need to correct them. (boo!)But disagreement is not the same as harm.So I hope this video helps you recognize the difference between preference and principle, understand why certain harmless choices trigger such strong reactions, and learn the three questions I ask before deciding whether something is actually my business.Because maturity isn’t agreeing with everything you see. It’s learning that you can dislike something without needing it to stop existing.Feel free to leave a comment because I love to talk! Also taking suggestions for future “how to” videos. I’d love to hear them! Go to https://nor3mak.com/ if you’d like to work through situations like this one-on-one :)