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The Expert Method · August 13 · 39 min

Why Strategy Alone Won’t Change Your Life

Most people set goals by focusing almost entirely on strategy: what they need to do, what steps to follow, and what outcome they want. But Ryan Fahey argues that strategy is only one part of the equation. In this conversation, Ryan breaks down his three-part framework of State, Story, and Strategy and explains why the way you feel, the story you tell yourself, and the systems you build around your life all shape whether you actually follow through. We also explore how to identify your core values, use those values as a filter for decisions, reclaim the “fringe hours” of your day, create psychological cues that help you switch off from work, and think more realistically about the different seasons of life and business. Ryan also shares why intentional living is less about doing more and more about making sure your time, energy, and decisions are pointed in the same direction. If you’ve ever known exactly what you should do but still struggled to consistently do it, this conversation offers a useful way to think about what might actually be missing. =============== Ryan’s Links: - Website: https://www.faheyconsulting.org/ - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryanbfahey - YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@faheyconsulting9498 Ryan’s Books and Courses: https://www.faheyconsulting.org/shop =============== Download the Program Execution System Toolkit: https://implementgpts.com/pestoolkit =============== - My LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ian-gatzke/ - Schedule Free Blueprinting Call: https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/bookings/implement-ai-blueprinting =============== Highlights: 0:00 Episode Highlight 0:46 Why We Drift Off Track 2:11 The Cost of Low Awareness 4:27 State, Story, Strategy 6:09 Why Goals Often Fail 8:28 Build Complete Goals 9:03 Reclaim Your Fringe Hours 11:17 Prepare to Have Freedom 13:58 Create a Shutdown Cue 16:44 Humans Aren’t Machines 18:08 Build Confidence Slowly 19:27 The Story You Live By 23:35 Learn, Earn, and Return 24:27 Start With Your Values 27:53 Turn Values Into Action 28:28 Live With Intention 31:37 Give Yourself Grace 33:25 Work With Your Seasons 37:12 Depth Over More 38:20 Episode Takeaway

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Most people set goals by focusing almost entirely on strategy: what they need to do, what steps to follow, and what outcome they want.

But Ryan Fahey argues that strategy is only one part of the equation.

In this conversation, Ryan breaks down his three-part framework of State, Story, and Strategy and explains why the way you feel, the story you tell yourself, and the systems you build around your life all shape whether you actually follow through.

We also explore how to identify your core values, use those values as a filter for decisions, reclaim the “fringe hours” of your day, create psychological cues that help you switch off from work, and think more realistically about the different seasons of life and business.

Ryan also shares why intentional living is less about doing more and more about making sure your time, energy, and decisions are pointed in the same direction.

If you’ve ever known exactly what you should do but still struggled to consistently do it, this conversation offers a useful way to think about what might actually be missing.

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Ryan’s Links:

- Website: https://www.faheyconsulting.org/

- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryanbfahey

- YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@faheyconsulting9498

Ryan’s Books and Courses:
https://www.faheyconsulting.org/shop

===============

Download the Program Execution System Toolkit:

https://implementgpts.com/pestoolkit

===============

- My LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ian-gatzke/

- Schedule Free Blueprinting Call: https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/bookings/implement-ai-blueprinting

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Highlights:

0:00 Episode Highlight

0:46 Why We Drift Off Track

2:11 The Cost of Low Awareness

4:27 State, Story, Strategy

6:09 Why Goals Often Fail

8:28 Build Complete Goals

9:03 Reclaim Your Fringe Hours

11:17 Prepare to Have Freedom

13:58 Create a Shutdown Cue

16:44 Humans Aren’t Machines

18:08 Build Confidence Slowly

19:27 The Story You Live By

23:35 Learn, Earn, and Return

24:27 Start With Your Values

27:53 Turn Values Into Action

28:28 Live With Intention

31:37 Give Yourself Grace

33:25 Work With Your Seasons

37:12 Depth Over More

38:20 Episode Takeaway

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