The Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor

Join hypnotherapist, subconscious mind expert, and relationship coach Kate Shelor in her cozy bed for fun, sexy talks on sex, relationships, intimacy, and romance. No topic is off-limits, from non-monogamy, swinging, polyamory, stripping, to online sex work and more!

Each episode features a special guest sharing personal stories, confessions, and a juicy "dirty secret."

Tune in for slumber party vibes as Kate and her guests dish out dirt, laugh, and get real about the things we all want to talk about!

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20 episodes
Updated July 25
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July 25 · 1 hr 7 min
🎙️Ep 053 – Momma B & Vanna – The Mother-Daughter OnlyFans Conversation Everyone's Talking About
Dirty Secrets Ep 0453 “Momma B & Vanna – The Mother-Daughter OnlyFans Conversation Everyone's Talking About” A mother and daughter... both successful content creators... and both willing to answer the questions everyone else is too afraid to ask. In this unforgettable episode, Momma B and Vanna Rose open up about how Vanna was actually the one who encouraged her mom to join OnlyFans, why they refuse to create adult content together despite constant assumptions, and how they navigate an industry that most people completely misunderstand. We also talk about confidence after 40, leaving toxic relationships, life as a dancer versus content creator, dating inside the adult industry, BDSM, dominance versus submission, body confidence, family boundaries, and why genuine personality matters more than perfection online. It's funny, emotional, surprisingly wholesome at times, and packed with stories you've definitely never heard before. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @vannarosetv @mommabombshell
July 11 · 1 hr 10 min
🎙️ Ep 052 – Sophia Locke – Porn Myths, Dating Disasters & Chasing the Edge
Dirty Secrets Ep 052 Sophia Locke – Porn Myths, Dating Disasters & Chasing the Edge What happens when a hypersexual thrill-seeker turns her curiosity into a 16-year career in the adult industry? Sophia Locke joins me for one of the most fascinating conversations we've had yet. We talk about the biggest myths people believe about porn, why porn performers are often better lovers than civilians, and how dating gets surprisingly complicated when your job involves sex. We also dive into BDSM, fear play, power dynamics, the reality of filming adult scenes, and why Sophia says she's gone from chasing extreme experiences to craving intimacy and connection. Plus, we get into awkward dating stories, jealous partners, dominant men who aren't actually dominant, and how a lifelong exhibitionist eventually found peace in being exactly who she is. This one is funny, honest, thought-provoking, and absolutely unforgettable. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @sophiavincentmusic
June 27 · 46 min
🎙️ Ep 051 – Sofie Marie – Hotwife Dates, 30-Man Gangbangs & The Husband Who Drops Her Off
Dirty Secrets Ep 051 “Sofie Marie – Hotwife Dates, 30-Man Gangbangs & The Husband Who Drops Her Off” Most husbands get nervous when their wife goes on a date with another man. Sofie Marie’s husband drives her there. 😏 In this episode, Sofie shares how a former nanny ended up becoming an adult creator, hotwife, and swinger with a husband who absolutely loves hearing every juicy detail afterward. We talk about first-date butterflies, navigating open relationships, and the surprisingly sweet rituals they’ve built around their lifestyle. We also dive into the logistics of organizing a 30-man gangbang, the reality behind hotwife dating, and why Sofie still gets nervous meeting new people, even after years in the industry. And wait until you hear what happens when she gets home from a date... @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @YummyGirlphotography
June 13 · 1 hr 8 min
🎙️ Ep 050 – Amanda the Kink Consultant – Dom/Sub Truths, Male Submission & Kink Myths
🎙️ Ep 050 – Amanda the Kink Consultant – Dom/Sub Truths, Male Submission & Kink Myths Dirty Secrets Ep 050 So… what if your partner is kinky and you’re not? Or worse—you are kinky and have no idea how to say it out loud? 😏 Amanda the Kink Consultant is breaking it ALL down. We talk about how to actually start that conversation (hint: it’s not “I want to be spanked”), why male submission is way more common than people think, and what dominance really looks like beyond whips and chains. We also get into power dynamics, the psychology behind kink, and why consent—not intensity—is what separates sexy from scary. And yes… we go there with hypnotherapy, punishment fantasies, and the real truth about 50 Shades. This one’s eye-opening, smart, and just the right amount of spicy. Come play. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @the_kinkconsultant
May 30 · 54 min
🎙️ Ep 049 – Ash & Tanya – Swinger Clubs, Reality TV Drama & Lifestyle Rules
Dirty Secrets Ep 049 Ash & Tanya – Swinger Clubs, Reality TV Drama & LifestyleRules 🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Ash & Tanya What happens when a random night out turns into a full-blown swinger lifestyle… and then lands you on reality TV? 😏 Ash & Tanya share how one unexpected question sparked their journey, how they found a club four minutes from their house, and why their first experiences were equal parts hot and chaotic (wait until you hear the Viagra story…). We get into the real rules that make swinging work, how to avoid resentment, and why “don’t take one for the team” might be the most important advice you’ll ever hear. Plus, their reality TV experience where producers literally tried to mess with their relationship for entertainment… yeah, it’s wild. Come laugh with us. @thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @ashandtanya
May 16 · 51 min
🎙️ Ep 048 – Jaimie Smiles – Hotwife Life, Confidence Glow-Ups & “Normal Mom” Energy
Dirty Secrets Ep 048 🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Jaimie Smiles She went from “normal mom next door” to confidently owning her sexuality… and it all started during COVID. Jaimie Smiles opens up about her glow-up journey, how losing weight and gaining attention sparked something new, and the moment her husband casually said, “I made you an OnlyFans.” 😳 We get into hotwife dynamics (and what people totally misunderstand about them), the rules that actually make it work, and how their relationship evolved from private exploration to filming content together. We also talk about confidence, staying grounded while building a following, and why she still sees herself as just a chill, normal girl… who happens to love putting on a show. Plus, a convo about orgasms, expectations, and why sex doesn’t always need a grand finale. @thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @jaimiesmiles
May 2 · 54 min
🎙️ Ep 047 – Chris Petrone – “Captain Tampon,” Dating Advice & Why Men Need to Wash Their Ass
Dirty Secrets Ep 047 “Chris Petrone – “Captain Tampon,” Dating Advice & Why Men Need to Wash Their Ass” 🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Chris Petrone Is washing your ass… controversial now? Apparently, yes. 😳 Chris Petrone joins me to talk about going from dating advice guy to creating spicy content, and the unexpected backlash that comes with it. We get into parasocial fans who think they know you, why being respectful to women gets you labeled “Captain Tampon,” and the wild DMs he gets (from both men and women). We also talk about porn vs real-life sex, why connection beats technique every time, and how something as simple as communication can completely change your sex life. Plus, wait until you hear the custom request involving a cartoon cow… I wish I was kidding. This one’s funny, honest, and low-key educational in the best way. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @ChrisPetrone
April 18 · 1 hr 6 min
🎙️ Ep 046 – Mallory Knight – Starting OnlyFans at 57, Dommy Mommy Energy & Swinger Stories
Dirty Secrets Ep 046 “Mallory Knight – Starting OnlyFans at 57, Dommy MommyEnergy & Swinger Stories” Most people think the adult industry is a young person’s game. Mallory Knight started her career at 57. In this episode, Mallory shares how curiosity, a supportive husband, and one intriguing conversation led her into OnlyFans later in life—and why she’s loved every minute of it since. We talk about her years in the swinger lifestyle, the surprising dynamics of filming scenes while staying happily married, and how editing her own content sometimes leaves her a little… turned on. We also dive into her “goddess dommy mommy” persona, why younger fans are drawn to nurturing dominance, and the strange but fascinating custom content requests creators get. Plus, the story of the night her husband encouraged her to invite a stranger from a strip club back home… and what happened next. Host: @thekatykat @thekatykatvip Guest: @mallorykxoxo
April 4 · 53 min
🎙️ Ep 045 – Justine Jakobs – Porn Prep Secrets, Deep-Throat Tricks & Dating While Filming
DirtySecrets Ep 045 “Justine Jakobs – Porn Prep Secrets, Deep-Throat Tricks & Dating While Filming” What does it really take to perform in professional adult films? In this episode, Justine Jakobs gets real about what life on a porn set is actually like. From the intense physical demands of filming to the surprising behind-the-scenes prep routines, she shares stories that most people never hear about. We talk about the differences between OnlyFans collabs and professional porn sets, how performers prepare their bodies before scenes, and the reality of filming long days while staying energized and camera-ready. Justine also opens up about starting porn in her 40s, navigating relationships while working in the industry, and why professionalism and awareness matter so much on set. Plus, she shares some wild on-set secrets, the techniques performers use to master certain scenes, and a personal story about finally testing out a fantasy she’d only seen in massage videos. This conversation is funny, honest, and full of behind-the-curtain insights into a world most people only see through a screen. YouTube: @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor Follow @thekatykat @justinejakobs
March 21 · 49 min
🎙️ Ep 044 – Mrs. Englewood – Swinger Clubs, Glory Hole Stories & 20 Years in Adult
Dirty Secrets Ep 044 “Mrs. Englewood – Swinger Clubs, Glory Hole Stories & 20 Years in Adult” What happens when a casual wine night turns into a 20-year career in adult content? Mrs. Englewood joins me in bed to talk about how she went from “girl next door” on early adult websites to a modern creator navigating OnlyFans, lifestyle clubs, and the wild evolution of the industry. We get into how adult content has changed since 2005, why personality matters more than just showing skin, and what it’s like building a career while maintaining real relationships. We also dive into swinger clubs, lifestyle etiquette, dating after divorce, and the surprisingly sweet side of the adult community. And of course… her dirty secret involves a pair of hidden panties, a bookstore scavenger hunt, and a very determined former pro athlete. This one is funny, honest, and full of stories you definitely didn’t hear in health class. Follow our guest and the show below 👇 YouTube: @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor Follow @thekatykat @MrsEnglewood
March 7 · 48 min
🎙️ Ep 043 – Fallon Jane – Giantess Kinks, BBC Confessions & Compassionate Bukkake
DirtySecrets Ep 043 “Fallon Jane – Giantess Kinks, BBC Confessions & Compassionate Bukkake” She’s 6 feet tall, turned on by cameras, and once apologized to God every time she came. Fallon Jane is not your average former church girl. In this episode, we talk about going from pharmaceutical rep to full-time creator, why her husband doesn’t watch her scenes, and how her first bukkake needed a “do-over.” We get into giantess fetishes, mommy roleplay, money kinks, and the wild reality of filming between 4–6 PM before the kids get home. And wait until you hear the dirty secret about her mother-in-law walking in…! This one is hilarious, honest, and surprisingly thoughtful. @thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @fallonjanexoxo
Jul 25, 2025 · 57 min
🎙️ Ep 042 – Barefoot Mama – Getting Recognized, Collab Chaos & Ranch on Her Feet
Dirty Secrets Ep 042 “Barefoot Mama – Getting Recognized, Collab Chaos & Ranch on Her Feet” 🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Barefoot Mama (@@barefootmamamn) She got recognized in a Vegas restaurant by a woman screaming, “You’re that b*tch my husband pays for.” And honestly? She kind of loved it. This episode is WILD—in the best way. Barefoot Mama (aka Jen) shares how she went from child protection investigator to viral TikToker to full-blown adult content creator. We talk about secret OnlyFans launches, collab house drama, fisting injuries (yep), gangbang goals, and what it’s really like filming back-to-back scenes with strangers. She opens up about racism in the industry, dating disasters, feet in ranch dressing, and the pressure to be emotionally available to men while getting railed on camera. You’ve never heard a Minnesota girl tell it quite like this. @thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @barefootmamamn Bone on a Zamboni, anyone?
Jul 17, 2025 · 1 hr 11 min
🎙️ Ep 041 – Lauren Elise Rogers – Purity Culture, Secret Fantasies & Escaping Shame
Dirty Secrets Ep 041 “Lauren Elise Rogers – Purity Culture, Secret Fantasies & Escaping Shame” Ever tried to go from “don’t touch yourself” to “be a sex goddess overnight”? Yeah... it doesn’t exactly work. Lauren Elise Rogers was raised in deep evangelical purity culture, married a man who later came out as gay, and spent years untangling shame from her sexuality. Now? She’s a sex educator on a mission. We go deep on obligatory sex, religious guilt, post-divorce horniness, and why masturbation was her ultimate act of rebellion. Lauren shares her fantasies (hello, teacher/student), the therapy that saved her, and what purity culture really does to long-term relationships. If you were raised to feel bad about pleasure—or still can’t shake that inner guilt—you’re going to love this one. @thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @laureneliserogers
Jul 11, 2025 · 35 min
🎙️ Ep 040 – Coy Wilder – Stranger Videos, Open-ish Marriage & Getting Caught Kissing
Dirty Secrets Ep 040 “Coy Wilder – Stranger Videos, Open-ish Marriage & Getting Caught Kissing” Coy Wilder spills everything—from her wild past filming real-life “stranger” encounters to her unapologetically hot cheating wife fantasy series. In this no-filter convo, Coy opens up about being raised in a small Southern town, how OnlyF’s cost her friendships and family, and why getting “caught” is still her favorite thrill. Kate and Coy dive into cuck dynamics, kissing boundaries (that went too far), and how her husband went from jealous to fully supportive… well, sort of. They talk about collabs, content, and the unexpected reality of filming sex for a living—like when Coy squirted on the cameraman from 20 feet away. If you’ve ever wondered what really goes down behind those stranger video titles or how to balance a hotwife fantasy with real-life love, Coy doesn’t hold anything back. @thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @officiallycoywilder
Jul 4, 2025 · 23 min
🎙️ Ep 039 – Brooke & Coy – Strap-On Shows, Creator Love Stories, and 7-Girl Orgies
🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Brooke Ryan (@brookebanter) & Coy Wilder (@officiallycoywilder) (OF @brooke_lovelydd @brookeryanvip @coywilderxxx @coywilder) Besties turned collab queens! Brooke and Coy open up about how they met in a creator house, went down on each other on day one, and never looked back. They talk about the blurred lines between friendship and intimacy, how collabs turned into sleepovers, and why their chemistry has fans begging for more. From strap-on 3somes and FaceTime cuck vids to live cam parties with double “come shows,” nothing is off-limits. They dive into orgy logistics, DILF preferences, and their most popular toys—plus, how preheating the oven is essential before getting wrecked on camera. They’re funny, flirty, and maybe in a full-blown relationship. But don’t worry, it’s still non-monogamous and profitable. @DirtySecretsPodcast@KateShelor @brookebanter @officiallycoywilder OF @thekatykat @brooke_lovelydd @brookeryanvip @coywilderxxx @coywilder
Jun 27, 2025 · 29 min
🎙️ Ep 038 – Brooke Ryan – Banking by Day, D*ck Ratings by Night
Dirty Secrets Ep 038 “Brooke Ryan – Banking by Day, D*ck Ratings by Night” 🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Brooke Ryan (@brookebanter) What happens when a conservative corporate banker discovers the wild world of OnlyF’s? Brooke Ryan tells all—from launching her secret no-face account duringthe pandemic to finally going full-face and full-throttle. Kate and Brooke talk about transitioning from buttoned-up banking to live cm shows, what makes a good dck pic (hint: it’s not size), and how dirty fingernails can ruin everything. Brooke also opens up about her late-blooming sxual confidence, her first squirting experience, why she prefers girth over length, and the emotional balance of humiliation customs and girly collabs. This episode is full of charm, surprise, and juicy behind-the-scenes life from one of the most likable content creatorsaround. @thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @brookebanter
Jun 19, 2025 · 58 min
🎙️ Ep 037 – Autumn Rain – Fetish Fame, Trans Porn & Cosplay Confessions
Dirty Secrets Ep 037 “Autumn Rain – Fetish Fame, Trans Porn & Cosplay Confessions” Dirty Secrets Ep 037 – 🎙️ Autumn Rain – Fetish Fame,Trans Porn & Cosplay Confessions Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Autumn Rain (@awwtumdabottom) Autumn Rain joins Kate to talk about how she went from pharmacy tech to viral trans adult film star—thanks to a Grindr hookup and a rebellious streak. They dive into what it’s like navigating the porn world as a trans woman, finding kinky community through FetLife, and why being a switch comes with unexpected challenges when everyone wants her to dom. Autumn shares stories about cosplay scenes, customs she’s tired of faking, and why topping cis women is her favorite kind of shoot (hint: no prep required). They also go deep on gender identity, hormones, and why tongue tricks and lip fetishes are more important than you think. @thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @awwtumduck
Jun 13, 2025 · 1 hr 1 min
🎙️ Ep 036 – Vic Lagina – Brazzers, Burnout, and the Dark Side of Mainstream P*rn
DirtySecrets Ep 036 “Vic Lagina – Brazzers, Burnout, and the Dark Side of Mainstream P*rn Dirty Secrets Ep 036 – 🎙️ Vic Lagina – Brazzers,Burnout, and the Dark Side of Mainstream P*rn 🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Vic Lagina (@viclagina) What really happens behind the scenes of the biggest p*rn empire in the world? Director and producer Vic Lagina opens up about his 20-year career with Brazzers—sharing how it all started with a chaotic crack-fueled first shoot and spiraled into becoming the workhorse behind one of the industry's biggest brands. Vic gets brutally honest about burnout, insane scene requests (elevator sex and prolapse stories included), and why the industry is more about ad clicks than pleasure. They dive deep into the Me Too era, performer boundaries, and what led Vic to finally walk away after decades on top. This is a raw, unfiltered look at the rise and fall of one man’s love affair with adult films—and the toll it took along the way. @thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @viclagina
Jun 6, 2025 · 59 min
🎙️ Ep 035 – Phoenix Marie – 3,000 Scenes, Porn Politics & the Truth About Gang Bangs
Dirty Secrets Ep 035 “Phoenix Marie – 3,000 Scenes, Porn Politics & the Truth About Gang Bangs” Dirty Secrets Ep 035 – 🎙️ Phoenix Marie – 3,000 Scenes,Porn Politics & the Truth About Gang Bangs Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Phoenix Marie (@PMarizzle) Legendary adult film icon Phoenix Marie joins Kate for a raw, hilarious, and unfiltered conversation about what it’s really like after filming 3,000+ scenes. From AVN Hall of Fame to calling out the fakes, Phoenix opens up about her preferences, orgasms, and why she’s never done a gang bang (despite being airtight more than once). They get real about industry myths, the evolution of s*x work, and the power dynamics on set—plus behind-the-scenes drama, strap-on struggles, and being cum-drunk for five hours. Also joining is former director Vic Lagina, who dishes on porn’s glory days, male talent mishaps, and why being a “Pornasaurus” still has perks. @thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @PMarizzle
May 30, 2025 · 47 min
🎙️ Ep 034 – Bad Bella – Boob Jobs, Sex Wrestling & Anal Prep Diaries
Dirty Secrets Ep 034 “Bad Bella – Boob Jobs, Sex Wrestling & Anal Prep Diaries” Dirty Secrets Ep 034 – 🎙️ Bad Bella – Boob Jobs, SexWrestling & Anal Prep Diaries Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Bad Bella (@badbellaxo) She’s got 1,000cc boobs, a psychology degree, and a wrestling scene with over a million views—and she’s just getting started. Bad Bella talks with Kate about her journey from Catholic school MySpace rebel to top 0% creator on OnlyF’s. From accidental boob jobs and feature dancing to why she’s finally prepping for her first anal scene (spoiler: she’s got a 12.5-inch dildo), Bella spills it all. They dive into live show secrets, crazy content requests, and how being self-managed means she works harder than anyone to keep her fans fed. This episode is full of outrageous stories, big laughs, and real talk about what it takes to stay at the top in adult entertainment. Follow @thekatykat and @badbellaxo for more from this unfiltered powerhouse. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @badbellaxo