Army Reserves vs Regular: The Brutal Truth From A Serving Major | Ash Bhardwaj

Most people imagine the Army Reserve as a light commitment and a bit of adventure on the side. The truth is sharper: it is leadership in compressed time, service with real trade-offs, and a second career you have to actively manage. We sit down with Major Ash Bardwaj to unpack what Reserve life actually looks like when you are also building a civilian career as a travel journalist, defence journalist, author and speaker.

We get into the motivations that pull people towards service, how purpose changes over time, and why “fighting for a government” is rarely the reason anyone joins. Ash talks candidly about joining first as a trooper to test the commitment, commissioning via Sandhurst, and the practical reality of being a platoon commander when you cannot rely on coercion because people can simply stop turning up. We also cover AOSB preparation, controlling the controllables, and the leadership habits that matter most when you are developing others with limited time.

A standout section explores how the British Army Reserve can leverage civilian expertise, from storytelling to media operations and defence communications, including lessons from Op Rescript during COVID and the challenge of disinformation. We finish with reflections on the Centre for Army Leadership work, the value of structured feedback, and the real advantages and disadvantages of reservist life, including skill fade and the experience gap as you promote.

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