Skip to content
Artwork for Startup Therapy
Startup Therapy · July 14 · 35 min

We Do What Other's Won't

What are you actually willing to do to get what you want as a founder? Using Will’s 6:00 a.m., 15-degree framing session and a dumpster-diving Bobcat mishap as metaphors, this episode breaks down what separates founders from everyone else: an “unreasonable” willingness to do hard, risky, uncomfortable things repeatedly—often without any guarantee of payoff. The conversation explores the real price founders pay (uncertainty, rejection, sacrifice, and daily grind), why high achievers used to clear reward loops can struggle in startup chaos, and why outsized outcomes tend to follow people who endure what others won’t. They also unpack common misconceptions about wealth and merit through examples like Jason Calacanis, Elon Musk, and elite athletes, and argue that the deeper reward isn’t money—it’s autonomy and ownership of your outcome. What to listen for: 02:13 Nothing I'm Not Willing to Do 04:41 Why Founders Get Paid 09:47 Rejection and Being Wrong 12:31 High Achievers vs Founders 15:58 Building the Willingness Muscle 18:45 Willingness Beats Talent 29:36 Real Reward Is Autonomy 32:51 Aspiring Founder Reality Check 34:52 Worth It in the End Resources: Startup Therapy Podcast https://www.startups.com/community/startup-therapy Website https://www.startups.com/begin LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/company/startups-co/ Join our Network of Top Founders Wil Schroter https://www.linkedin.com/in/wilschroter/ Ryan Rutan https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryan-rutan/

0:00-35:41

transcript

No transcript — this publisher did not publish one.

show notes

What are you actually willing to do to get what you want as a founder? Using Will’s 6:00 a.m., 15-degree framing session and a dumpster-diving Bobcat mishap as metaphors, this episode breaks down what separates founders from everyone else: an “unreasonable” willingness to do hard, risky, uncomfortable things repeatedly—often without any guarantee of payoff. The conversation explores the real price founders pay (uncertainty, rejection, sacrifice, and daily grind), why high achievers used to clear reward loops can struggle in startup chaos, and why outsized outcomes tend to follow people who endure what others won’t. They also unpack common misconceptions about wealth and merit through examples like Jason Calacanis, Elon Musk, and elite athletes, and argue that the deeper reward isn’t money—it’s autonomy and ownership of your outcome.

What to listen for:
02:13 Nothing I'm Not Willing to Do
04:41 Why Founders Get Paid
09:47 Rejection and Being Wrong
12:31 High Achievers vs Founders
15:58 Building the Willingness Muscle
18:45 Willingness Beats Talent
29:36 Real Reward Is Autonomy
32:51 Aspiring Founder Reality Check
34:52 Worth It in the End

Resources:
Startup Therapy Podcast
https://www.startups.com/community/startup-therapy
Website
https://www.startups.com/begin
LinkedIn
https://www.linkedin.com/company/startups-co/

Join our Network of Top Founders
Wil Schroter
https://www.linkedin.com/in/wilschroter/
Ryan Rutan
https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryan-rutan/