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The Harsh Truth About Self-Discipline (ft. Rich Roll)

Jun 5, 2024 · 1 hr 31 minExplicit
0:00-1:31:59

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I’ve often wondered if self-discipline is just a way of turning bad addictions into healthy ones. After all, addictions of all kinds are really just an attempt to numb and distract ourselves from facing uncomfortable feelings. Can’t the same be said for healthy behaviors once they reach a level of compulsion?

I brought Rich Roll on the pod to discuss this idea because, well, he’s a recovered alcoholic who turned into an ultra-endurance athlete in his 40s. Rich is no stranger to reinventing himself, repeatedly leveraging his flaws into virtues.

We talk about the value of pain as a catalyst for change, the idea that addiction is a spectrum that doesn’t just involve substances, terrible breakups, finding a deeper spirituality, lessons from Rich’s financial struggles, his career running a top podcast, and much, much more.

CHAPTERS

Chapters

  • 00:00:00 Introduction: Is Self-Discipline Just Healthy Addiction?
  • 00:04:23 The Connection Between Addiction and Ultra-Endurance
  • 00:08:49 Pain as Teacher: Confronting Discomfort
  • 00:21:24 What We're Most Addicted To Right Now
  • 00:13:14 When Willingness Finally Arrives: Rich's Rock Bottom
  • 00:29:07 Why the 12-Step Program Works After 100 Years
  • 00:39:38 The Wedding That Nearly Destroyed Him
  • 00:46:36 Spirituality Without Religion: Defining the Mystical Beyond
  • 00:50:55 The Physical as Vehicle for the Spiritual
  • 01:05:53 Seven Years of Financial Hell: Trash Cans, Repo Men, and Faith
  • 01:15:51 Starting a Podcast in a Yurt: The Origin Story
  • 01:22:01 The Power of Vulnerability: Why Sharing Shame Sets You Free
  • 01:26:42 What Rich Gives Too Many, Too Few, and Just the Right Amount of Fucks About

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