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Self Directed · Aug 28, 2025 · 56 min

Blake Boles | Escaping Routine: Deep Conversation and wanting a Galactic Commune

Blake Boles joins us to talk about his recent editorial, "I Don't Want a Nuclear Family, I Want a Galactic Commune - on the pursuit of quality conversation", which is about the decline of quality conversation and his resistance to the nuclear family model. We discuss the difference between daily logistics and real dialogue, why travel often brings deeper connections, and how temporary communities can support richer conversations. Blake shares ideas like hosting travelers, playing structured games like Hot Seat, and treating every interaction as a chance to learn something new. Listen to our first episode together with Blake Boles | Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids To School? : https://www.theconrad.family/selfdirected48 🗓️ Recorded August 26th, 2025. 📍 Åmarken, Lille Skendsved, Denmark 🔗 Relevant links Website: https://www.blakeboles.com/ Blake on Substack: https://letters.blakeboles.com/ Podcast: https://www.blakeboles.com/dbr/ Website: https://www.unschooladventures.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blaketotheboles/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unschooladventures/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/unschool.adventures Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blake.boles Books by Blake Boles Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids to School?: https://amzn.to/3RCDi20 The Art of Self-Directed Learning: https://amzn.to/3GEXpXe Better Than College: How to Build a Successful Life Without a Four-Year Degree: https://amzn.to/3RCiwzx College Without High School: A Teenager’s Guide to Skipping High School and Going to College: https://amzn.to/3RkZlc2 Send a message Support the show SUPPORT & CONNECT Podcast website: https://www.cecilieconrad.com/self-directed Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconrad.family Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theconradfamily

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Blake Boles joins us to talk about his recent editorial, "I Don't Want a Nuclear Family, I Want a Galactic Commune - on the pursuit of quality conversation", which is about the decline of quality conversation and his resistance to the nuclear family model. 

We discuss the difference between daily logistics and real dialogue, why travel often brings deeper connections, and how temporary communities can support richer conversations. Blake shares ideas like hosting travelers, playing structured games like Hot Seat, and treating every interaction as a chance to learn something new.

Listen to our first episode together with Blake Boles | Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids To School? : https://www.theconrad.family/selfdirected48

🗓️ Recorded August 26th, 2025. 📍 Åmarken, Lille Skendsved, Denmark

🔗  Relevant links

Books by Blake Boles

Send a message

Support the show

SUPPORT & CONNECT

Podcast website: https://www.cecilieconrad.com/self-directed
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconrad.family
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theconradfamily

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