Simon Blake OBE: Stonewall, Thriving & Backing Yourself

Simon Blake OBE has dedicated much of his life to making the world a safer, fairer place for LGBTQ+ people.

As CEO of Stonewall, one of the world’s most influential LGBTQ+ organisations, Simon joins Ben Cicchetti for a thoughtful and deeply personal conversation about authenticity, activism, hope and why our goal should never simply be to survive, but to thrive.

Simon reflects on growing up in Cornwall in the 1970s, the first time he saw himself represented on screen, coming out to his parents, and the powerful words his father shared years later: “I’m so glad that you gave us the chance to love you in all of you.”

We also discuss:

• The role and future of Stonewall
• LGBTQ+ rights in 2026
• Why progress isn’t always linear
• Diversity, equity and inclusion
• Why representation matters
• The importance of empathy
• Social media and activism
• Leadership and trusting your gut
• Advice for young LGBTQ+ people
• Why we should aim to thrive, not just survive

This is a conversation full of warmth, wisdom and hope from one of the most important voices in the LGBTQ+ community.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Simon Blake and Queer Panic Questions

03:55 Childhood and Early Influences

08:11 Realizing Difference and LGBTQ+ Awareness

11:46 Authenticity and Coming Out Journey

15:58 Career Path and Leadership Insights

20:10 The Role of Stonewall and Personal Connection

23:40 Navigating the Culture War for LGBTQ+ Rights

26:42 Stonewall's Vision and Strategy for 2026

30:22 Balancing Urgency and Strategy in Advocacy

35:36 The Role of Businesses in Promoting Inclusion

39:46 The Impact of Politicization on LGBTQ+ Lives

47:56 Advice for the Younger LGBTQ+ Generation

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