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Proactive Mindfulness · Yesterday · 33 min

Conflict and Commitment in Mindful Presence

Conflict is not the enemy of love or of mindful presence. Serge Prengel and Russell Delman explore how staying present in difficult moments turns friction into personal growth. Starting from everyday situations (a pile of emails, a tense exchange at home), they look at the shift from reacting to responding, and the felt sense of not needing to defend or win. Russell Delman's approach was shaped by Zen meditation and close ties to Moshe Feldenkrais and Gene Gendlin. Serge Prengel Serge Prengel explores Proactive Mindfulness in therapy and in everyday life. Key topics: - From “I have to” to “I get to” - Responding, not reacting: when the reactive voice stops taking over - Reclaiming more of yourself in the middle of an interaction - Why context, built from experience, matters more than commitment - Bringing meditation practice into intimate relationship - Conflict as a home for love, not something love merely survives - Differentiation and integration in relationships and living systems See more about Proactive Mindfulness and personal growth at https://proactivemindfulness.com

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Conflict is not the enemy of love or of mindful presence. Serge Prengel and Russell Delman explore how staying present in difficult moments turns friction into personal growth. Starting from everyday situations (a pile of emails, a tense exchange at home), they look at the shift from reacting to responding, and the felt sense of not needing to defend or win.
Russell Delman's approach was shaped by Zen meditation and close ties to Moshe Feldenkrais and Gene Gendlin. Serge Prengel Serge Prengel explores Proactive Mindfulness in therapy and in everyday life.

Key topics:
- From “I have to” to “I get to”
- Responding, not reacting: when the reactive voice stops taking over
- Reclaiming more of yourself in the middle of an interaction
- Why context, built from experience, matters more than commitment
- Bringing meditation practice into intimate relationship
- Conflict as a home for love, not something love merely survives
- Differentiation and integration in relationships and living systems

See more about Proactive Mindfulness and personal growth at https://proactivemindfulness.com