Gay Self-Esteem

In this episode, we explore how identity, body image, dating culture, social media, rejection, and community expectations shape confidence and self-worth. We discuss where these insecurities begin, why external validation so often becomes addictive, and what it actually takes to build lasting self-esteem. Joining us are two guests with very different perspectives. ROM-1 is a pop artist and former RuPaul's Drag Race performer, who shares his personal experiences navigating confidence, visibility, and authenticity. We also celebrate his latest single, Haymaker! Also joining us is Andrew Akuruka, author of The Gay Blueprint, who offers practical insight into developing healthier relationships with yourself, building confidence beyond appearance, and creating a more intentional life. Whether you've struggled with comparison, confidence, dating, or simply feeling "good enough," this conversation offers honest perspectives on one of the most important and often overlooked topics affecting the LGBTQ+ community. We speak your thoughts @pigmentedtaboo across all platforms