38: You Don't Need the Whole Plan to Get Recruited

If you’ve been trying to approach recruiting like a step-by-step checklist, this episode will challenge the way you think about the process.

In this episode, Susan shares a powerful analogy that reframes recruiting as a road trip instead of a fixed plan. Athletes and families often want the exact steps and a guaranteed path, but in reality, recruiting is about direction, not perfection.

Susan breaks down why trying to map out every step can actually create more stress and confusion, and how focusing on the next move builds momentum and clarity over time. She also explains the role of a “copilot” in the recruiting process, and how the right guidance can make the journey smoother without taking away ownership from the athlete.

For parents, this episode offers a helpful shift in perspective on how to best support your athlete without becoming the backseat driver, and why your role matters more than you think.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed or stuck in the recruiting process, this episode will help you simplify your approach, build momentum, and keep moving forward.

Chapters

00:00 – Intro

00:45 – Recruiting isn’t a step-by-step process

01:45 – Why planning everything creates stress

02:30 – Direction over perfection

03:45 – Focus on the next step

04:15 – The role of a recruiting guide

05:45 – Action creates clarity

07:00 – What this means for athletes

08:00 – What this means for parents

09:30 – Why outside support helps

11:00 – Parents as the fuel, not the driver

12:30 – What actually helps families most

13:30 – Final takeaway: keep moving

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