Why It's So Hard to Leave a Covert Narcissist: Attachment & Fantasy | Epi 171

In this second part of my conversation with Dr. Melissa Kalt, we go beyond understanding covert narcissistic relationships and ask a much deeper question: Why do people remain emotionally invested even when they can clearly see the pattern? Together, we explore the powerful roles of attachment and unconscious fantasy. We also begin to discuss what actually creates change. If you've ever thought, "I know exactly what's happening, so why can't I let go?" this is a conversation you won't want to miss! To learn more about Dr. Melissa's work, visit melissakaltmd.com. If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information. Contact me Directly with observations, questions or comments: thenarcissismdecoder@gmail.com You can follow The Narcissism Decoder on: https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissism.decoder/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thenarcissismdecoder https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder Dr. Mazzella’s personal website: drmazzella.com Dr. Anthony Mazzella is a psychoanalyst and psychodynamic psychotherapist specializing in narcissism, personality disorders, and relational dynamics.