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Nothing’s wrong with the bee w/ David Bedrick

What if the thing you keep trying to fix is the most intelligent part of you? We tend to think of shame as a hot, exposed feeling. David Bedrick, author of The Unshaming Way and Maria’s own teacher, says most shame is invisible: it looks like performing well, calling ourselves anxious or shy or blocked, and asking to have our symptoms taken away before we’ve ever gotten curious about them. Waypoints [00:01:35] — Shame you can’t feel [00:12:20] — Nothing’s wrong with the bee [00:22:55] — Shy, or scared?. [00:29:30] — The story underneath the story [00:41:50] — Math is when numbers are angry at you [00:49:28] — The critic you don’t know is there Resources David Bedrick — davidbedrick.com The Unshaming Way: A Compassionate Guide to Dismantling Shame by David Bedrick (North Atlantic Books, 2024) Deborah Keenan — poet and David’s former poetry teacher; her poem about trying to “be good” Cornel West — “I am because somebody loved me” CTA YOUR SECRET INVITATION HERE Have a creative quandary? Submit a question to be answered on the show Got some creative resistance? Get your free audio guide to the Creative Resistance Practice for unblocking Theme song by deadmen

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What if the thing you keep trying to fix is the most intelligent part of you? We tend to think of shame as a hot, exposed feeling. David Bedrick, author of The Unshaming Way and Maria’s own teacher, says most shame is invisible: it looks like performing well, calling ourselves anxious or shy or blocked, and asking to have our symptoms taken away before we’ve ever gotten curious about them.


Waypoints

[00:01:35] — Shame you can’t feel

[00:12:20] — Nothing’s wrong with the bee

[00:22:55] — Shy, or scared?.

[00:29:30] — The story underneath the story

[00:41:50] — Math is when numbers are angry at you

[00:49:28] — The critic you don’t know is there
Resources 

CTA

YOUR SECRET INVITATION HERE

Have a creative quandary? Submit a question to be answered on the show

Got some creative resistance? Get your free audio guide to the Creative Resistance Practice for unblocking


Theme song by deadmen


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