
Leading Her Introvert Way: Executive Leadership Development & Career Growth for Black Women
132: You've Been Negotiating With the Wrong Person This Whole Time
May 20 · 14 min · Episode 132 · 7.1 MB
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In this episode, Dr. Nicole Bryan breaks down the most common — and most costly — mistake women make in salary negotiations at the Director, VP, and senior executive level: going to the wrong person. If you've ever left a compensation conversation feeling like you did everything right and still got nowhere, this episode is going to reframe everything.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- Why your manager is your advocate — not your decision-maker — and what that distinction actually costs you
- The real role HR plays in compensation decisions (and how to stop treating them like an opponent)
- Why compensation decisions become more distributed — not less — the higher you climb
- The four questions you need to answer before you ever walk into a salary conversation
- How to think about your negotiation as a campaign, not a conversation
This episode is for you if: You're a Director, VP, or senior leader who is done leaving money on the table and ready to negotiate with the sophistication your level demands.
Resources & Next Steps:
- 📅 Register for Name Your Number: How To Calculate What Your Total Compensation Should Be & Win With Confidence When You Negotiate
— free two-day intensive, June 6 & 7 - www.thechangedoc.com/nameyournumber
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- 0:00The Costly Negotiation Mistake;
- 2:08Why Your Manager Cannot Say Yes;
- 4:45What HR Actually Does;
- 6:32Executive Pay Has More Stakeholders;
- 8:05Map The Real Decision Makers;
- 10:06Four Moves To Win The Yes;
- 14:00Workshop Invite And Final Reframe