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Lead. Win. - An Extreme Ownership Podcast · August 18 · 18 min

The Mistake New Leaders Make That Immediately Destroys Their Influence

📚 Books On Amazon: Purchase books by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin on Amazon. https://echelonfront.com/links/ ➕ Follow Us On Social: https://www.instagram.com/echelonfront https://twitter.com/EchelonFront https://www.facebook.com/echelonfront/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/echelon-front-llc/ Free Weekly Leadership Newsletter: https://engage.echelonfront.com/Rundown Stop damaging your credibility by pretending to know the answers. Learn how building credibility actually comes from admitting what you do not know. In this episode of the Lead Win Podcast, Leif Babin and Carlos Mendez break down the counterintuitive reality of leadership influence. Many professionals mistakenly believe that projecting total confidence is the key to respect, but this often backfires, proving to your team that you were faking it all along. We discuss why admitting ignorance is a powerful tool for gaining genuine influence. This conversation is for anyone struggling to balance authority with honesty. You will learn why letting others influence you first creates a stronger dynamic than forcing your own agenda. True professional authenticity requires vulnerability, and we explore how to maintain that balance without losing the respect of your peers or subordinates. Subscribe for weekly leadership breakdowns, and comment below with a time you had to admit you did not know the answer to a problem. 0:00 The Hidden Cost of Proving Yourself 1:48 The Power of Starting with Silence 3:41 Gaining Influence by Letting Others Lead 6:41 Debunking the Myth of the Barking Leader 11:26 The Mechanics of Decentralized Command

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📚 Books On Amazon: Purchase books by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin on Amazon.

https://echelonfront.com/links/


➕ Follow Us On Social:


https://www.instagram.com/echelonfront

https://twitter.com/EchelonFront

https://www.facebook.com/echelonfront/

https://www.linkedin.com/company/echelon-front-llc/


Free Weekly Leadership Newsletter: https://engage.echelonfront.com/Rundown


Stop damaging your credibility by pretending to know the answers. Learn how building credibility actually comes from admitting what you do not know.


In this episode of the Lead Win Podcast, Leif Babin and Carlos Mendez break down the counterintuitive reality of leadership influence. Many professionals mistakenly believe that projecting total confidence is the key to respect, but this often backfires, proving to your team that you were faking it all along. We discuss why admitting ignorance is a powerful tool for gaining genuine influence.


This conversation is for anyone struggling to balance authority with honesty. You will learn why letting others influence you first creates a stronger dynamic than forcing your own agenda. True professional authenticity requires vulnerability, and we explore how to maintain that balance without losing the respect of your peers or subordinates.


Subscribe for weekly leadership breakdowns, and comment below with a time you had to admit you did not know the answer to a problem.


0:00 The Hidden Cost of Proving Yourself

1:48 The Power of Starting with Silence

3:41 Gaining Influence by Letting Others Lead

6:41 Debunking the Myth of the Barking Leader

11:26 The Mechanics of Decentralized Command