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In this episode of Last Date, I sit down with Cailan after meeting her on a trail in Austin, where I asked her one question: What do you wish was different about modern dating?
Her answer: She wishes people would approach each other more in real life.
So we decided to continue the conversation.
We talk about why so many men are afraid to approach women, whether women really only want attractive guys approaching them, and what actually separates a confident approach from a creepy one. Cailan shares approaches that have worked on her and explains why personality and charisma can matter far more than men realize.
We also discuss:
How to approach a woman without being creepy
What actually creates chemistry on a first date
Vulnerability vs. trauma dumping
How the “Three Day Rule” is outdated
What "long-term, open to short" actually communicates on a dating profile
This conversation is a practical look at what women actually want from men in modern dating—and why making dating better might require all of us to stop overthinking it and start being a little more willing to make the first move.
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