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Last Date · September 1 · 43 min

What Does “Effort” Actually Look Like in Dating?

In this episode of Last Date, I sit down with Grayson to talk about something women often say they want from men in dating: effort. But what does effort actually look like? Grayson shares what one guy did on a date that immediately stood out to her—and, on the other end of the spectrum, what happened when a guy she was genuinely excited about suddenly disappeared despite already having their next date planned. We also discuss: - Dating as a six-foot-tall woman - How to approach someone in public - Why women should approach men too - Asking for her Instagram vs. her number - Ghosting someone when you already have another date scheduled - Why women think about safety differently when meeting someone new Follow this channel for future conversations about modern dating and relationships. Follow on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lastdatepodcast Follow Grayson on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@grayson.smith12 Follow Danny on Instagram for clips and insights:⁠ https://www.instagram.com/lastdatepodcast https://www.instagram.com/cruxcompatible

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In this episode of Last Date, I sit down with Grayson to talk about something women often say they want from men in dating: effort. But what does effort actually look like?


Grayson shares what one guy did on a date that immediately stood out to her—and, on the other end of the spectrum, what happened when a guy she was genuinely excited about suddenly disappeared despite already having their next date planned.


We also discuss:


- Dating as a six-foot-tall woman


- How to approach someone in public


- Why women should approach men too


- Asking for her Instagram vs. her number


- Ghosting someone when you already have another date scheduled


- Why women think about safety differently when meeting someone new


Follow this channel for future conversations about modern dating and relationships.


Follow on YouTube:

https://www.youtube.com/@lastdatepodcast


Follow Grayson on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@grayson.smith12


Follow Danny on Instagram for clips and insights:⁠

https://www.instagram.com/lastdatepodcast

https://www.instagram.com/cruxcompatible