How To Convince with Lawyer Vince

The Art of Standing Your Ground: How to Advocate for Yourself Without a Title

Oct 7, 2025 · 11 min · Season 1 · Episode 25 · 10.7 MB
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If you’ve ever walked out of a meeting or conversation feeling unheard, overlooked, or like your confidence got tested, this episode is for you.


Here’s what you’ll walk away with:

✔️ The 4 most common power plays people use and how to respond with calm authority

✔️ My 3-step self-advocacy system (Deflect Pressure, Disarm Tactics, Redirect to Standards) that helps you hold your ground without losing your cool

✔️ Real client stories where small language shifts completely changed the dynamic with bosses, coworkers, and even family

✔️ A listener Q&A covering how to push back on your boss, claim credit without sounding defensive, and set boundaries in family conversations without guilt

If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t want to come off as difficult, but I also don’t want to be walked over,” this episode gives you the exact words to stay calm, sound confident, and stand your ground without needing a title.


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