Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life

Laurel Slade-Waggoner

Hosted by Laurel Slade-Waggoner, a Board-Certified Christian Counselor, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, author, counselor, and coach, this podcast gives Christian men and women the tools and truth they need to navigate life with a narcissist.

If you've been manipulated, gaslit, or spiritually shamed into silence, this podcast will help you:

Recognize patterns of narcissistic control and emotional abuse

Understand how faith and psychology can work together to bring clarity

Set Biblical boundaries that protect your heart and your children

Heal from guilt, fear, and confusion, and rediscover God's peace

Whether you're still in the relationship, co-parenting with a narcissist, or rebuilding your life after leaving one, you'll find strength, wisdom, and hope in every episode.

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20 episodes
Updated July 23

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July 23 · 15 min
Why Narcissists Lie, Deny, and Rewrite History (And How to Protect Yourself)
The Narcissist Wants You to Believe This Lie Have you ever confronted a narcissist with undeniable proof, only to have them deny everything, twist the facts, or completely rewrite what happened? If you've ever left a conversation wondering, "Did that really happen the way I remember it?" or "Am I losing my mind?"—you're not alone. In this episode of Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life, Laurel Slade-Waggoner explains why narcissists lie, deny, and rewrite history, and more importantly, how you can protect your sanity without getting pulled into their distorted version of reality. You'll learn why narcissists often refuse to acknowledge the truth, how gaslighting and history rewriting are used to maintain control, and why trying to convince them to admit the truth usually leads to more confusion and emotional exhaustion. Most importantly, you'll discover six biblical principles to help you stay grounded in reality, strengthen your emotional resilience, and keep your peace—even when someone is determined to manipulate your perception of the truth. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why narcissists lie, deny, and rewrite history • How gaslighting slowly erodes your confidence • The real reason narcissists avoid accountability • What DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) looks like in real life • How narcissists use selective memory and confabulation to manipulate others • Six practical ways to stay anchored in truth and protect your sanity • Biblical encouragement for overcoming deception and emotional manipulation • Why you don't have to accept someone else's distorted reality If you're dealing with a narcissistic spouse, parent, adult child, sibling, coworker, or friend, this episode will help you recognize destructive patterns, remain emotionally grounded, and walk in truth instead of confusion. Remember: You are not crazy. You are not alone. God sees the truth, and He is with you every step of the way. --- 📚 Resources Mentioned • Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy • Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy Both books are available on Amazon in Kindle and paperback formats. 🙏 Scripture References • Psalm 46:1 • Psalm 46:10 • Proverbs 12:19 • Proverbs 12:20 • Proverbs 12:22 • Proverbs 14:8 • Proverbs 14:9 • Proverbs 23:9 • Proverbs 26:24–26 • 1 John 4:16 • 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 --- 💬 I'd love to hear from you. Have you experienced a narcissist denying the truth or rewriting history? Share your experience in the comments. Your story may encourage someone else who feels isolated and confused. If this episode helped you, please: 👍 Like this video 🔔 Subscribe for more biblical guidance on narcissistic abuse and emotional healing 📤 Share this episode with someone who needs hope and clarity today. #Narcissism #Gaslighting #NarcissisticAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #HealingFromAbuse #ChristianCounseling #Boundaries #MentalHealth #TraumaRecovery #FaithAndHealing
June 2 · 12 min
How Narcissists Behave During the Divorce Process and What You Can Do to Stand Up for Yourself
In this episode of The Help: I Have a Narcissist in My Life podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner offers crucial relationship advice for those navigating the complexities of divorcing a narcissist. She shares insights into how individuals with npd behave during the divorce process and provides practical strategies for standing up for yourself. This discussion is essential for anyone experiencing narcissistic abuse and seeking narc abuse recovery. Check out Laurel's books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop
April 30 · 6 min
Is It OK To Leave A Spouse Who Emotionally Neglects You?
Hi, I'm Laurel Slade-Wagoner, and this video tackles a frequently asked question: is separation acceptable when facing emotional neglect and chronic indifference in a relationship? We explore typical behaviors associated with emotional invalidation and how these contribute to relationship problems. This discussion aims to help those navigating a toxic relationship and considering steps to address emotional abuse. Understanding these dynamics is crucial when contemplating separation in the face of narcissistic abuse. Check out Laurel's books and services: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com
April 13 · 17 min
Standing Up to a Narcissist's Hypocrisy and Double Standards
Welcome to "The Help: I Have a Narcissist in My Life" podcast, where I, Laurel Slade-Wagoner, guide you through understanding narcissism. This episode, "Standing Up to a Narcissist's Hypocrisy and Double Standards," aims to help you navigate the complexities of narcissistic abuse. Thank you to all my regular listeners for your support; I pray for your strength and courage in dealing with emotional abuse and toxic relationships, and for your journey towards narcissistic abuse recovery. Check out Laurel's books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop
March 24 · 17 min
3 Quick Tells That You Might Be Dealing With Someone Who's Narcissistic
In this episode of Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life, Laurel Slade-Waggoner breaks down 3 powerful and often overlooked signs you may be dealing with a narcissist—even if they don't fit the typical stereotype. These early warning signs can help you: Recognize narcissistic behavior quickly Stop second-guessing yourself Protect your mental, emotional, and spiritual health Avoid getting pulled deeper into a toxic relationship Many people look back and say, "I wish I knew this sooner." This episode will give you the clarity and discernment you need now. In This Episode, You'll Learn: The #1 conversation pattern narcissists always reveal How narcissists react when they don't get what they want The dangerous mindset that makes narcissists impossible to reason with Why your instincts are often right when something feels "off" If you're dealing with confusion, emotional exhaustion, or manipulation… this will help you see things clearly. 📘 Get Laurel's Book: Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy 👉 https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-you-crazy 💬 Need Help or Have a Question? Email: lslade4@verizon.net Website: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/ 📌 Don't Forget: 🔔 Subscribe on Apple Podcasts or Spotify for more content on narcissistic abuse recovery
March 19 · 19 min
Why Empaths Attract Narcissists (And How to Break Free for Good)
If you're an empath who keeps attracting narcissists… this is not random. In Episode 69 of Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life, Laurel Slade-Waggoner breaks down the powerful—and often painful—connection between empaths and narcissists, and why so many compassionate, caring people end up in toxic, one-sided relationships. If you've ever felt: Drained from constantly helping others Responsible for someone else's emotions Unable to say "no" without guilt or fear Stuck in a relationship where you give everything and receive nothing 👉 This episode will bring you clarity, validation, and a path forward. 🔍 In This Episode, You'll Learn: ✔️ What an empath really is (and why it's NOT a weakness) ✔️ Why narcissists are drawn to empaths ✔️ How narcissists use charm, victimhood, and manipulation to hook you ✔️ The difference between godly empathy vs over-empathy ✔️ How over-empathy forms (and why it keeps you stuck) ✔️ Practical steps to stop being exploited by narcissists ✔️ How to set boundaries—even if you feel trauma-bonded ✔️ Why learning to say "no" is key to your healing ⚠️ The Truth Most Empaths Need to Hear: Narcissists don't see your empathy as love… They see it as supply. And unless you heal your over-empathy, you may continue to: Attract toxic relationships Stay stuck in emotional abuse Feel overwhelmed, exhausted, and unseen But there IS a way out. 🙏 Biblical Encouragement & Healing This episode also shares powerful biblical truth and encouragement, including: 📖 Galatians 1:10 – Stop living to please people 📖 Proverbs 29:25 – Fear of man is a trap 📖 Galatians 6:5 – Each person carries their own load 📖 Jeremiah 30:17 – God restores and heals your wounds God does not call you to carry what was never yours. 💬 If This Spoke to You… You are not alone. You are not weak. And you are not crazy. You are likely wounded—and healing is possible. 📌 Next Steps: 👉 Subscribe for more content on narcissistic abuse recovery 👉 Leave a comment: "I'm healing" if this resonated with you 👉 Share this with someone who needs clarity and strength 📧 Connect with Laurel: 📩 Email: lslade4@verizon.net 📖 Books: Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-you-crazy 🌐 Visit Laurel's website for resources, sessions, and her monthly "Sanity & Strength" newsletter https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
February 2 · 19 min
The 5 Most Common Baiting Strategies Narcissists Use
n this episode of Help: I Have a Narcissist in My Life, licensed counselor Laurel Slade Wagoner reveals the five most common baiting strategies narcissists use to control, confuse, and exhaust the people in their lives — and how you can break free. If you've ever felt manipulated, guilt-tripped, or emotionally drained by someone who twists every situation back on you, this episode will help you: ✅ Recognize narcissistic baiting tactics ✅ Learn biblical, practical ways to resist their manipulation ✅ Find peace and clarity in toxic relationships Through scripture-based wisdom and real-life examples, Laurel explains how to stay calm, set boundaries, and stop taking the narcissist's bait — so you can walk in freedom and emotional strength again. 💡 What You'll Learn The 5 narcissist traps that keep you stuck How to respond when they provoke, guilt-trip, or blame you Why staying silent or disengaging is often your strongest defense How to replace fear, obligation, and guilt with godly love and discernment 🕊️ About This Podcast "Help: I Have a Narcissist in My Life" is a faith-based podcast that helps you understand, heal from, and overcome narcissistic abuse through biblical truth, emotional awareness, and professional counseling insight. 🙏 Connect with Laurel Slade Wagoner 🌐 Website: slade-waggonercounselingservices.com 📚 Books: Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy | Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-your-kids-crazy 📧 Email: lslade4@verizon.net 📖 Key Scriptures Mentioned Matthew 10:16 — "Be as shrewd as serpents and as innocent as doves." Proverbs 26:4 — "Do not answer a fool according to his folly." Isaiah 26:3 — "You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast." ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 – Intro & Welcome 01:20 – What is narcissistic baiting? 03:15 – Bait #1 – They Provoke You to React 06:00 – Bait #2 – They Shift Responsibility 09:00 – Bait #3 – They Make You Chase Them 12:15 – Bait #4 – They Fish for Compliments 15:30 – Bait #5 – They Push You Away (Then Play Victim) 18:45 – How to Resist the Bait Biblically 20:00 – Final Prayer & Encouragement ❤️ If this episode helped you… 👉 Subscribe for more encouragement on overcoming narcissistic abuse 👉 Share this episode with someone who needs hope and clarity.
Dec 23, 2025 · 11 min
Helping Children with a Narcissistic Parent
What do your children need from you when their other parent is narcissistic, manipulative, or emotionally chaotic? In this episode of Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life, Laurel Slade-Waggoner explains how to protect your children's hearts, minds, and identity when they are exposed to a narcissistic parent's control, deceit, or emotional instability. You'll learn why trust is the foundation your children need most, how your consistency creates emotional safety, and how to respond when your children hear confusing or harmful messages from their narcissistic parent. Laurel walks listeners through a clear, faith-based, 4-step process to help children process difficult situations, ask questions without fear, and develop confidence in truth rather than manipulation. In this episode, you'll discover: What builds trust between you and your children How age-appropriate honesty protects your child's emotional health How to validate your child without attacking the narcissistic parent A practical problem-solving framework you can teach your children Why calm, consistency, and truth neutralize narcissistic control How to help your children feel safe, seen, and supported If you are co-parenting with a narcissist, navigating parental alienation, or trying to protect your children from emotional manipulation, this episode will give you clarity, reassurance, and practical guidance rooted in biblical wisdom. You are not alone. Your children need you, and your steady presence matters more than you know.
Oct 27, 2025 · 23 min
Trauma Bonds: Why You Feel Confused and Stuck After Narcissistic Abuse
If you've ever asked yourself, "Why can't I break free from the narcissist in my life?" — this episode is for you. In Episode 66 of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life Podcast, Christian Counselor and author Laurel Slade-Waggoner explains what trauma bonding really is, how it forms, and how you can finally begin to break free through biblical truth and God's strength. Learn why narcissists use love bombing, gaslighting, guilt, and manipulation to keep you trapped — and what the Bible says about protecting your heart, reclaiming your peace, and walking in freedom. In this episode, you'll discover: The 3 stages of trauma bonding and how they keep you emotionally stuck Why narcissists manipulate through intermittent kindness and cruelty How Scripture exposes the destructive patterns of narcissistic control Biblical steps to break trauma bonds and rebuild your confidence How to recognize the difference between toxic attachment and authentic love Key Message: You are not crazy. You are precious — and God can help you break free from the trauma bond that has kept you in confusion, fear, and emotional pain. Website: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com Contact Laurel: lslade4@verizon.net
Jun 30, 2025 · 49 min
What If My Adult Children Are Narcissistic (feat. Dr. David Clarke) | Ep 65
What do you do when the child you raised with love becomes controlling, entitled, or abusive as an adult? In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Laurel Slade-Waggoner is joined again by Dr. David Clarke to tackle one of the most heartbreaking dynamics many parents face: navigating a relationship with an adult narcissistic child. Together, they offer biblical wisdom, righteous anger, practical strategies, and compassionate validation for parents dealing with verbal abuse, triangulation, financial manipulation, unlaunched adult children, and more. They also unpack: What to do if your adult child mirrors a narcissistic ex-spouse How to lovingly set boundaries without self-shame Why tough love is biblical love The difference between being responsible to vs. for your child When (and how) to stop enabling—and start healing The power of strategic truth statements and righteous anger Whether you're parenting through grief, guilt, or gaslighting, this episode will equip and encourage you to stand strong, walk wisely, and release what's not yours to carry. There is help, and there is hope. 📚 Learn more about Dr. David Clarke at davideclarkephd.com 📘 Get Laurel's books and resources at slade-waggonercounselingservices.com ------ 📬 Have Questions? Suggestions? Contact Us! Feel free to email Laurel with any questions or topics you'd like addressed in upcoming episodes. Your input helps shape our future content! 💡 Stay Updated: Subscribe to our podcast and leave a rating and review. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Don't forget to subscribe to our email community for updates on future podcasts, books, and free monthly tools to help you stay sane and strong. 📚 Books by Laurel Slade Wagoner: "Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy" "Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy" Available for purchase at https://www.sladewagonercounselingservices.com 🙏 Thank you for listening! God bless you. 🕊️
Jun 2, 2025 · 26 min
How To Deal With A Narcissistic Boss, Subordinate, or Coworker | Ep 64
Navigating a toxic work environment? In this insightful and practical episode, Laurel tackles the complex challenges of dealing with narcissistic bosses, colleagues, and subordinates. Drawing on biblical wisdom, clinical experience, and her own personal journey, Laurel explores the difference between healthy and unhealthy narcissism in the workplace—and the profound impact toxic individuals can have on organizations and those who work with them. You'll learn: - How to identify narcissistic behaviors and red flags at work - The psychological and emotional toll workplace narcissists inflict - Strategies to set healthy boundaries, document interactions, and protect your well-being - The importance of recognizing your own vulnerabilities and codependent tendencies - When and how to involve HR or seek organizational accountability - Biblical principles and practical steps for confronting, coping, or determining when it's time to move on This episode includes powerful scripture reflections, a healing activity to help you review your career path, and a closing prayer for all who face toxic work dynamics. ----- 📬 Have Questions? Suggestions? Contact Us! Feel free to email Laurel with any questions or topics you'd like addressed in upcoming episodes. Your input helps shape our future content! 💡 Stay Updated: Subscribe to our podcast and leave a rating and review. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Don't forget to subscribe to our email community for updates on future podcasts, books, and free monthly tools to help you stay sane and strong. 📚 Books by Laurel Slade Wagoner: "Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy" "Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy" Available for purchase at https://www.sladewagonercounselingservices.com 🙏 Thank you for listening! God bless you. 🕊️
Mar 26, 2025 · 36 min
Our Most Asked Questions (feat. Dr. David Clarke) | Ep 63
In this powerful and truth-packed episode, Laurel Slade-Waggoner sits down with longtime friend and fellow counselor, Dr. David Clarke, to tackle some of the most common (and painful) questions they receive from those in narcissistic relationships. They discuss how narcissists manipulate, gaslight, and keep their victims trapped—and why so many women ask, "Am I the narcissist?" (Hint: you're not!). Dr. Clarke shares his wisdom on righteous anger, trauma bonding, biblical reasons for divorce, why narcissists don't change, and how to protect your kids from their destructive influence. Whether you're navigating a narcissistic spouse, co-parent, or family member, this episode is packed with clarity, validation, humor, and hope. Don't miss the encouragement and empowerment from two counselors who get it. 📚 Learn more about Dr. David Clarke at davideclarkephd.com 📘 Get Laurel's books and resources at slade-waggonercounselingservices.com ------ 📬 Have Questions? Suggestions? Contact Us! Feel free to email Laurel with any questions or topics you'd like addressed in upcoming episodes. Your input helps shape our future content! 💡 Stay Updated: Subscribe to our podcast and leave a rating and review. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Don't forget to subscribe to our email community for updates on future podcasts, books, and free monthly tools to help you stay sane and strong. 📚 Books by Laurel Slade Wagoner: "Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy" "Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy" Available for purchase at https://www.sladewagonercounselingservices.com 🙏 Thank you for listening! God bless you. 🕊️
Nov 22, 2024 · 26 min
Surviving The Holidays w/ Narcissistic Family Members (Ep 62)
🎙️ Welcome to another episode of "Help! I Have A Narcissist In My Life" podcast with your host, Laurel Slade Wagoner! In Episode 62, we delve into one of the most challenging aspects of dealing with narcissists: navigating the holidays and family gatherings. 🎄 From overwhelming emotions to chaotic family dynamics, Laurel shares practical and faith-based strategies to maintain your peace and sanity. Learn how to: -Refuse to give narcissists power over your holiday joy -Implement crucial boundaries to protect your mental health -Recognize common narcissistic behaviors and equip yourself with effective coping mechanisms 💬 Whether you're hosting or attending a family gathering, these tips will empower you to handle the holiday season with grace and strength. Laurel draws from personal experience, biblical wisdom, and psychological insights to guide you through this difficult time. 🔔 Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE for more episodes filled with support and actionable advice for navigating life with narcissists. ***** 🌟 Key Highlights: 00:00 Empowerment and neutralizing narcissistic behavior during holidays. 06:15 Maintain peace, handle narcissists biblically, reflect values. 09:10 Find healing in nature and helping others. 12:04 Narcissists behave disruptively; self-centered, entitled, provoking. 6:26 Focus on flexibility and children's needs during celebrations. 20:09 Set boundaries with narcissists; prioritize self-care. 22:30 Detach from narcissists, embrace personal responsibility, pray 25:46 I appreciate your friendship and support. ***** 📬 Have Questions? Suggestions? Contact Us! Feel free to email Laurel with any questions or topics you'd like addressed in upcoming episodes. Your input helps shape our future content! 💡 Stay Updated: Subscribe to our podcast and leave a rating and review. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Don't forget to subscribe to our email community for updates on future podcasts, books, and free monthly tools to help you stay sane and strong. 📚 Books by Laurel Slade Wagoner: "Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy" "Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy" Available for purchase at https://www.sladewagonercounselingservices.com 🙏 Thank you for listening! God bless you. 🕊️
Sep 23, 2024 · 27 min
Narcissistic Breadcrumbing (Ep 61) | Help! I Have A Narcissist In My Life Podcast
Description: Welcome to Episode 61 of the "Help! I Have A Narcissist In My Life" podcast with your host, Laurel Slade Wagoner. In this insightful episode, we dive deep into the manipulative behavior known as narcissistic breadcrumbing. Laurel explains how narcissists subtly and deceitfully maintain control over their victims by offering minimal cooperation and sporadic attention. 🔖 In this episode, you will learn: The connection between narcissistic stonewalling and breadcrumbing. How breadcrumbing creates confusion, doubt, and a false sense of hope in victims. Real-life examples and manifestations of narcissistic breadcrumbing. Practical steps to empower yourself and stop the cycle of breadcrumbing. 🌟 Key Highlights: [00:00:14] Introduction and gratitude to listeners. [00:02:12] Understanding narcissistic stonewalling. [00:04:47] What is narcissistic breadcrumbing? [00:06:49] How victims fall into the breadcrumbing trap. [00:11:05] Examples from real-life scenarios. [00:20:01] Three-step process to empower yourself against breadcrumbing. [00:22:30] Healing activity and practical applications. [00:23:40] Power Scriptures and a prayer for the listeners. 📬 Have Questions? Suggestions? Contact Us! Feel free to email Laurel at lslade4izon.net with any questions or topics you'd like addressed in upcoming episodes. Your input helps shape our future content! 💡 Stay Updated: Subscribe to our podcast and leave a rating and review. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Don't forget to subscribe to our email community for updates on future podcasts, books, and free monthly tools to help you stay sane and strong. 📚 Books by Laurel Slade Wagoner: "Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy" "Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy" Available for purchase at sladewagonercounselingservices.com 🙏 Thank you for listening! God bless and take care. 🕊️ #NarcissisticAbuse #Breadcrumbing #MentalHealth #ManipulationTactics #Empowerment #Healing #Podcast #Narcissism 🔗 Links: Visit our website: sladewagonercounselingservices.com
Aug 19, 2024 · 52 min
Divorcing A Narcissist (Ep 60) | Help! I Have A Narcissist In My Life Podcast
Welcome to "Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life" with Laurel Slade Wagoner. In this insightful episode, hosts David and Laurel dive deep into the complexities of dealing with a narcissistic parent or partner, especially during and after the divorce process. 💔👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Are you struggling with a narcissistic spouse or co-parent? Discover why confronting or trying to change their behavior is often unproductive and how to focus on supporting and protecting your children instead. 🛡️ Key Topics Discussed: - The impact of a narcissistic parent on children and teens - Strategies for minimizing harm and promoting healing - Preparing for and navigating the divorce process with a narcissistic partner - Legal and financial advice for protecting yourself and your children - The importance of setting boundaries and teaching healthy relationships - Dealing with manipulative behavior and fake repentance - Understanding the roles of attorneys, forensic accountants, and parent coordinators 🔍 **Highlights**: - Importance of financial and legal preparation before initiating a divorce - The role of honest communication with children about their parent's behavior - Strategies for maintaining custody agreements and ensuring the well-being of your kids - Biblical insights on dealing with narcissistic behavior and the necessary steps for divorce May God bless you abundantly. Thank you for listening and being part of this community. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Informal episode discusses divorce process with narcissist. 06:26 Encouraging divorce, stressful process, decision is crucial. 06:48 Facing manipulation when leaving a narcissist is challenging. 12:18 Research local attorneys, seek their input. 15:38 Doubtful he'll change, don't count on it. 19:19 Narcissistic partners hiding money, help available. 20:09 Finding an attorney with key connections is crucial. 25:36 Earn trust, tell truth, help children cope. 28:58 Divorced parent struggles with bribery and structure. 30:37 Married man dating younger woman, sucking up. 35:56 Custody negotiations often lead to manipulation 38:10 Honesty and structure help parent-child estrangement. 41:37 Emphasize treating kids as people in divorce. 44:45 Finding the truth helps to understand differences. 46:04 Open, honest communication and confidentiality is essential. 50:05 Ideal book for divorcing a narcissist, step-by-step guide. ********** Check out Laurel's books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop
Jul 29, 2024 · 19 min
False Guilt Syndrome (Ep 59) | Help! I Have A Narcissist In My Life Podcast
Welcome to "Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life" with Laurel Slade Wagoner. In Episode 59, we dive deep into the concept of False Guilt Syndrome and how living with a narcissist can make you feel chronically guilty and fearful. Whether you're a regular listener or new to the podcast, your pain is seen and lifted up in prayer. Remember, your experiences are valid and it's not your fault. In this episode, we explore: • The exhausting and debilitating nature of chronic guilt and fear • How narcissists shift blame and induce false guilt • Indicators of False Guilt Syndrome • Practical steps to overcome chronic guilt and reclaim your peace Sign up for my email community on my website for a free sanity and strength-building tool each month! Stay tuned for actionable insights and biblical guidance to navigate your journey. Key Scriptures: • Romans 8:1 • Psalm 34:18 • Isaiah 26:3 • Proverbs 16:24 • Galatians 1:10 Resources Mentioned: • Don't Let the Crazy Make You Crazy (Book) • Don't Let the Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy (Book) Subscribe, rate, and review the podcast to help others find it. Feel free to email your questions or topic suggestions to lslave4@verizon.net. For more information, visit Slade-Waggoner Counseling Services. May God bless you abundantly. Thank you for listening and being part of this community. ********** Check out Laurel's books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop
Feb 20, 2024 · 23 min
How Narcissists Use the Concepts of Biblical Submission and Obedience to Control and Abuse Their Victims (Ep 58)
Learn how narcissists manipulate and control their victims by twisting Biblical concepts of submission and obedience. This eye-opening podcast episode, Laurel Slade-Waggoner exposes the tactics used by narcissists in relationships and offers advice on how to break free from their control. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subcribe, and leave a rating and a review to help us reach more people. Laurel's Books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop
Oct 17, 2023 · 19 min
Narcissistic FOG-ing (Ep 57) - How Narcissists Use This Form of Manipulation to Get What They Want from Others
On this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses Narcissistic FOG-ing. Narcissistic FOG-ing is a powerful and effective form of manipulation in which narcissistic individuals use language and gestures that invoke fear, obligation, and/or guilt in their victims to ensure that their demands are met with compliance. Thanks for listening! Laurel's Books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop
Oct 12, 2023 · 22 min
Coercive Control (Ep 56) - How to Recognize It and Guard Yourself Against It
On this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses coercive control and how to recognize it and guard yourself against it. Narcissistic control and abuse are being talked about and dealt with more than ever before. And so is coercive control. Thanks for listening! Laurel's Books: Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-your-kids-crazy Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-you-crazyhttps://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-you-crazy
May 30, 2023 · 14 min
Unconditional Love and Unconditional Support (Ep 55) - They Are Not One and the Same
Unconditional Love and Unconditional Support- They are not one and the same Narcissists can be extremely charming, nice, apologetic, and cooperative- as long as circumstances and other people are providing them with exactly what they believe they are entitled to, without any conditions. Through my years of counseling, I have met with hundreds of clinically narcissistic, Biblically foolish individuals who were masters at articulating false narratives of wanting to work on themselves and their relationships, who were experts at feigning contrition, who were pros at pretending to be repentent, changed people during their relationship counseling sessions, or who were whizzes at convincing others that they were helpless, powerless victims of circumstance. Listen and learn how to tell the difference between unconditional love and unconditional support. Thanks for listening! For more resources from Laurel please refer to her website: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/