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Exploring The Gray · May 31 · 8 min

Why "Just Try" Doesn't Work

"Just try it." Most of us have said it. I know I have. Usually, it comes from a good place. We want to encourage our kids, help them grow, or show them they're capable of more than they think. But sometimes those three little words can feel a lot bigger than we realize. In this episode, Caleb and I talk about what "just try it" feels like from both sides. Caleb shares why pressure often makes it harder for him to try something new, and I talk honestly about the times I've pushed when I thought I was helping. We discuss the difference between pushing and supporting, why timing matters, and how helping someone feel safe can sometimes be the thing that allows them to try in the first place. And of course, Caleb's Corner is back with another food rating segment! If you've ever said "just try it" and watched things go sideways, you're not alone. And if you've ever been the person hearing those words while feeling completely overwhelmed, this episode is for you too. Thanks for exploring the gray with us. 🫶 Connect with us on LinkTree: linktr.ee/exploringthegray

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"Just try it."

Most of us have said it. I know I have.

Usually, it comes from a good place. We want to encourage our kids, help them grow, or show them they're capable of more than they think. But sometimes those three little words can feel a lot bigger than we realize.

In this episode, Caleb and I talk about what "just try it" feels like from both sides. Caleb shares why pressure often makes it harder for him to try something new, and I talk honestly about the times I've pushed when I thought I was helping.

We discuss the difference between pushing and supporting, why timing matters, and how helping someone feel safe can sometimes be the thing that allows them to try in the first place.

And of course, Caleb's Corner is back with another food rating segment!

If you've ever said "just try it" and watched things go sideways, you're not alone. And if you've ever been the person hearing those words while feeling completely overwhelmed, this episode is for you too.

Thanks for exploring the gray with us. 🫶

Connect with us on LinkTree: linktr.ee/exploringthegray

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