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Don't Depend On Daddy · August 12 · 45 min

174. How to Become a Morning Person | 6 Tips to Make Your Mornings Better That Actually Stick

Want to become a morning person but can't make it stick? In this episode I'm breaking down exactly how I trained myself to actually enjoy waking up early, and why I don't think it has anything to do with motivation. We're talking about why your morning routine actually starts the night before, how to stop relying on willpower, and the small shifts that make getting up early feel effortless instead of like a fight with yourself every single day. What I cover: 👉🏻 Why most morning routines fail by Wednesday, and the mistake almost everyone makes when trying to wake up earlier 👉🏻 How to remove decision fatigue from your mornings so you're not negotiating with yourself at 6am 👉🏻 The role your phone plays in your routine 👉🏻 Why SYSTEMS beat motivation every time, and how to actually build habits that stick Referenced in this episode: 👉🏻 Why You Can't Focus and the Framework to Actually Fix It (A Complete Guide to Deep Work) — https://youtu.be/z49IReLo4AU?si=dyetcaV2j5Esmkds GET THE NEW PRODUCTIVITY PLANNER! 👉🏻 https://breakyourbudget.com/productivity-planner Subscribe to the Beyond Your Budget Substack: https://breakyourbudget.substack.com/ Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://breakyourbudget.substack.com/p/your-personal-finance-starter-kit BREAK YOUR BUDGET RESOURCES: 💸 Personal Finance Dashboard: https://breakyourbudget.com/personal-finance-dashboard 💸 Basic Budgeting Template: https://breakyourbudget.com/basic-budgeting-template 💸 FI/RE Template: https://breakyourbudget.com/fire-template 💸 Rent vs. Buy Calculator: https://breakyourbudget.com/rent-vs-buy-calculator 💳 TOOLS I USE: 💸 Rakuten Cash Back (cash back on purchases you're already making): https://shorturl.at/w0PcH 💸 SoFi HYSA (my fave high yield savings account): https://secure.money.com/pr/pa5344bfc4f2 💸 Classpass (try it for a discounted first month): https://classpass.com/refer/UKLV6BN026 📚 MY BOOKS: 💸 Own Your Money: https://breakyourbudget.com/own-your-money 💸 Own Your Career: https://breakyourbudget.com/oyc-book All Other Resources: https://breakyourbudget.com/links 👩🏼‍💻 Inquiries: michela@breakyourbudget.com 📸 Instagram (Break Your Budget): https://www.instagram.com/breakyourbudget/ 📸 Instagram (Personal): https://www.instagram.com/michela_alloccaa 📲 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breakyourbudget 💸 My ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/shop/michelaallocca TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 — The one weekend I slept in and how badly it threw off my whole day 04:00 — Why anyone can train themselves to become a morning person, no matter your chronotype 06:00 — The predictable cycle that kills every failed morning routine by Wednesday 09:00 — Finding your actual reason to get out of bed before you touch your alarm 15:00 — Why booking a morning workout removes the negotiation from getting up 18:00 — Start smaller than you think: the small increment rule for moving your wake time 22:00 — My morning starts the night before: building a real wind down routine 25:00 — Revenge bedtime procrastination and why the nighttime scroll is nearly impossible to escape 32:00 — Your morning brain isn't built for sharp decisions, and neither is an "optimized" routine 38:00 — Giving your morning somewhere to go: the real motivation behind getting up early

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Want to become a morning person but can't make it stick? In this episode I'm breaking down exactly how I trained myself to actually enjoy waking up early, and why I don't think it has anything to do with motivation. We're talking about why your morning routine actually starts the night before, how to stop relying on willpower, and the small shifts that make getting up early feel effortless instead of like a fight with yourself every single day.


What I cover:

👉🏻 Why most morning routines fail by Wednesday, and the mistake almost everyone makes when trying to wake up earlier

👉🏻 How to remove decision fatigue from your mornings so you're not negotiating with yourself at 6am

👉🏻 The role your phone plays in your routine

👉🏻 Why SYSTEMS beat motivation every time, and how to actually build habits that stick


Referenced in this episode:

👉🏻 Why You Can't Focus and the Framework to Actually Fix It (A Complete Guide to Deep Work) — https://youtu.be/z49IReLo4AU?si=dyetcaV2j5Esmkds


GET THE NEW PRODUCTIVITY PLANNER!

👉🏻 https://breakyourbudget.com/productivity-planner


Subscribe to the Beyond Your Budget Substack:

https://breakyourbudget.substack.com/


Personal Finance Starter Kit:

https://breakyourbudget.substack.com/p/your-personal-finance-starter-kit


BREAK YOUR BUDGET RESOURCES:

💸 Personal Finance Dashboard:

https://breakyourbudget.com/personal-finance-dashboard

💸 Basic Budgeting Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/basic-budgeting-template

💸 FI/RE Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/fire-template

💸 Rent vs. Buy Calculator:

https://breakyourbudget.com/rent-vs-buy-calculator


💳 TOOLS I USE:

💸 Rakuten Cash Back (cash back on purchases you're already making): https://shorturl.at/w0PcH

💸 SoFi HYSA (my fave high yield savings account): https://secure.money.com/pr/pa5344bfc4f2

💸 Classpass (try it for a discounted first month): https://classpass.com/refer/UKLV6BN026


📚 MY BOOKS:

💸 Own Your Money:

https://breakyourbudget.com/own-your-money

💸 Own Your Career:

https://breakyourbudget.com/oyc-book


All Other Resources:

https://breakyourbudget.com/links


👩🏼‍💻 Inquiries: michela@breakyourbudget.com

📸 Instagram (Break Your Budget): https://www.instagram.com/breakyourbudget/

📸 Instagram (Personal): https://www.instagram.com/michela_alloccaa

📲 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breakyourbudget

💸 My ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/shop/michelaallocca


TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 — The one weekend I slept in and how badly it threw off my whole day

04:00 — Why anyone can train themselves to become a morning person, no matter your chronotype

06:00 — The predictable cycle that kills every failed morning routine by Wednesday

09:00 — Finding your actual reason to get out of bed before you touch your alarm

15:00 — Why booking a morning workout removes the negotiation from getting up

18:00 — Start smaller than you think: the small increment rule for moving your wake time

22:00 — My morning starts the night before: building a real wind down routine

25:00 — Revenge bedtime procrastination and why the nighttime scroll is nearly impossible to escape

32:00 — Your morning brain isn't built for sharp decisions, and neither is an "optimized" routine

38:00 — Giving your morning somewhere to go: the real motivation behind getting up early