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Conversations With Candice · April 13 · 33 min

The Fear Isn't Failure. The fear is Being Seen

We are DEEP in Chapter One of YOUR rebuild, and this week we're talking about Structure, the moment your private dreams go public. This is the stage where your new identity stops being internal and starts showing up in the real world for everyone to see, judge, and witness. In this episode, Candice breaks down why the fear you're feeling isn't really about failure, it's about exposure. She unpacks the three types of people in your audience (supporters, observers, and resistors), why resistors say more about themselves than about you, and how to keep building even when the noise gets loud. We're also covering Candice's practical tools to help you push through: The 48-Hour Rule Naming Your Audience The 10% Expansion Rule Replacing Approval with Evidence If your structure is going up and things are feeling tight, sticky, and scary; that's exactly where you're supposed to be. Keep building, babe. Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe so you never miss a conversation. Conversations with Candice is hosted by two-time Sunday Times bestselling author and cultural commentator Candice Brathwaite. New episodes every week. Get in touch: contact@conversationswithcandicepodcast.com Listen on Acast: https://shows.acast.com/conversations-with-candice Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@conversationswithcandicepod Follow Candice: Instagram: @candicebrathwaite TikTok: @candicebrathwaite If you love the show, please leave a review, it really helps others find us. Remain Unrealistic. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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We are DEEP in Chapter One of YOUR rebuild, and this week we're talking about Structure, the moment your private dreams go public.


This is the stage where your new identity stops being internal and starts showing up in the real world for everyone to see, judge, and witness.

In this episode, Candice breaks down why the fear you're feeling isn't really about failure, it's about exposure. She unpacks the three types of people in your audience (supporters, observers, and resistors), why resistors say more about themselves than about you, and how to keep building even when the noise gets loud.


We're also covering Candice's practical tools to help you push through:

  • The 48-Hour Rule
  • Naming Your Audience
  • The 10% Expansion Rule
  • Replacing Approval with Evidence


If your structure is going up and things are feeling tight, sticky, and scary; that's exactly where you're supposed to be. Keep building, babe.


Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe so you never miss a conversation.


Conversations with Candice is hosted by two-time Sunday Times bestselling author and cultural commentator Candice Brathwaite. New episodes every week.


Get in touch: contact@conversationswithcandicepodcast.com


Listen on Acast: https://shows.acast.com/conversations-with-candice


Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@conversationswithcandicepod


Follow Candice:

Instagram: @candicebrathwaite

TikTok: @candicebrathwaite

If you love the show, please leave a review, it really helps others find us. Remain Unrealistic.




Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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