
Proactive Fertility: When To Get Checked, Freeze Eggs & Plan Ahead | Dr. Shefali Shastri, RMA NJ
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Most people only meet a fertility specialist in crisis mode.
In this episode, Dr. Shefali Shastri, Clinical Director and Physician Partner at RMA New Jersey, explains what proactive fertility actually looks like.
Dr. Shastri is a board‑certified reproductive endocrinologist who has helped bring thousands of babies into the world since joining RMA New Jersey in 2009. Inspired by her OB/GYN mother, she now combines cutting‑edge science with deeply personal, patient‑centered care.
We cover:
• Who should consider a fertility workup before trying
• How to understand your “fertility age” vs your birthday age
• What a proactive fertility checkup actually includes (hormones, AMH, ultrasound, semen analysis, basic genetic screening, etc.)
• Red flags where you should not “wait a year”
• Egg freezing, preimplantation genetic testing, and underlying genetic causes of infertility
• Exercise, weight, stress and movement for fertility
• Specific guidance for single parents by choice, queer couples, and people planning for donor conception or surrogacy
• How to turn fear of “bad news” into informed, empowered decisions
If you’re not trying yet but want options later, or you’re already in treatment and feeling stuck, this conversation will give you a clear, compassionate roadmap.
Connect:
• Learn more about Dr. Shastri and RMA New Jersey: https://rmanetwork.com/staff/shefali-mavani-shastri/
• Follor Dr. Shastri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shefalishastrimd/
• Get my proactive fertility & family‑building resources:https://familybuilding.net/free-downloads/