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Breaking the Silence · May 13 · 34 min

Why You Don’t Feel Safe — Even When Nothing Is Wrong

Do you love God and still struggle with anxiety, emotional triggers, or feeling unsafe in relationships? You’re not broken. And your faith isn’t weak. Sometimes your spirit trusts God… while your nervous system is still responding to grief, trauma, abandonment, or relationship wounds. In this episode, Raynea and Kelli talk about why your body may not feel safe even when there’s no immediate danger, how attachment wounds impact your nervous system, and what scripture says about healing, rest, and emotional safety. We discuss: • why survival responses show up in relationships • what fight, flight, freeze, and fawn can look like • why faith should never be used to bypass healing • scriptures to return to when anxiety rises • practical ways to regulate your nervous system with God If you’ve ever wondered why you still feel triggered even though you pray, trust God, and want peace… this episode is for you. FREE RESOURCE: 10 Minutes to Feel Held A guided audio + prayer resource to help you feel grounded when anxiety, grief, or overwhelm rises.CLICK HERE Connect with us on Instagram: Raynea: https://www.instagram.com/rayneawallace Kelli: https://www.instagram.com/alohagray Resource mentioned in this episode: He Calls Me Daughter Listen to Breaking the Silence: Spotify: CLICK HERE Apple Podcasts: CLICK HERE YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@breakingthesilencewithraynea

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Do you love God and still struggle with anxiety, emotional triggers, or feeling unsafe in relationships?

You’re not broken.
And your faith isn’t weak.

Sometimes your spirit trusts God…
while your nervous system is still responding to grief, trauma, abandonment, or relationship wounds.

In this episode, Raynea and Kelli talk about why your body may not feel safe even when there’s no immediate danger, how attachment wounds impact your nervous system, and what scripture says about healing, rest, and emotional safety.

We discuss:
• why survival responses show up in relationships
• what fight, flight, freeze, and fawn can look like
• why faith should never be used to bypass healing
• scriptures to return to when anxiety rises
• practical ways to regulate your nervous system with God

If you’ve ever wondered why you still feel triggered even though you pray, trust God, and want peace… this episode is for you.

FREE RESOURCE:
10 Minutes to Feel Held
A guided audio + prayer resource to help you feel grounded when anxiety, grief, or overwhelm rises.CLICK HERE


Connect with us on Instagram:
Raynea: https://www.instagram.com/rayneawallace
Kelli: https://www.instagram.com/alohagray


Resource mentioned in this episode:
He Calls Me Daughter

Listen to Breaking the Silence:
Spotify:
CLICK HERE

Apple Podcasts: CLICK HERE
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@breakingthesilencewithraynea

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