When Consequences Fail (Try This Instead)
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#176 In this episode, Lisa discusses her thoughts on consequences. She covers the importance of consistency, choosing the right consequence, whether or not she believes consequences need to be connected to the bad behaviour, and shifting the focus towards your parenting rather than the child’s behaviour.
Lastly, Lisa addresses nine listener questions, discussing consequences for a 10-year-old, what to do when a 3-year-old doesn’t care about toys being taken away, how to handle a situation when the behaviour from a 4-year-old changes around company, and how to navigate mealtime battles with a 3-year-old. She then explores managing consequences when friends are over, whether parents should be using chores as consequences, what to do when children don’t respond well to consequences, how to respond to a 5-year-old choosing to break rules, and finishes with her general approach to addressing a 7-year-old picking their nose.
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- 0:00Introduction to Consequences
- 1:06The Importance of Consistency
- 2:23Having the Wrong Consequence
- 2:55Connected Consequences
- 4:22Listener Question 1: Consequences For 10-Year-Old?
- 7:13Shifting the Focus Towards Your Parenting
- 8:38Listener Question 2: 3-Year-Old Doesn’t Care About Toys Being Taken Away?
- 10:45Listener Question 3: Behaviour From 4-Year-Old Changes Around Company?
- 13:31Listener Question 4: Mealtime Battles With 3-Year-Old?
- 16:24Personal Story: Amy Carving Her Name On Dining Table
- 19:51Listener Question 5: Consequences When Friends Are Over?
- 23:55Listener Question 6: Using Chores As Consequences?
- 26:03Listener Question 7: Children Don’t Respond Well to Consequences?
- 27:57Listener Question 8: 5-Year-Old Choosing to Break Rules?
- 29:27Listener Question 9: 7-Year-Old Picking Nose?
- 32:35Final Thoughts on Creating Consequences For Your Children