Turning Shame Into Care: A Guide To Trauma, Incontinence, and Advocacy with Peter Mutabazi and Mica Phillips

We open the door on incontinence in foster and adoptive homes and talk plainly about shame, trauma, and the mental load. Peter Mutabazi, founder of Now I am Known, shares the daily realities of children with incontinence issues and advocacy wins. Mica Phillips, Vice President of Aeuroflow Urology, explains how to qualify for medical-grade supplies through Medicaid and why it restores dignity.

• why stigma follows older kids who need diapers
• trauma, autism, ADHD, and constipation as drivers
• the true cost burden and poor retail fit for bigger sizes
• using physicians as allies and documentation that works
• navigating Medicaid, managed care, and approvals
• school and camp accommodations, IEP hurdles, and dignity
• refill timing, product quantities, and fewer last‑minute store runs
• practical steps to apply via Aeroflow Urology and what to expect

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