Ep 34: Finding a Role for Fathers with Darby Saxbe

Please follow me on Instagram and TikTok @beahappierparent Full videos of episodes available on YouTube @alexindadland Couples coaching, contact me: beahappierparent@gmail.com Darby Saxbe is on Instagram @darbysaxbephd summary This conversation explores the evolving roles of fathers and mothers, the impact of societal and cultural shifts on parenting, and how to foster healthier family dynamics. It highlights the importance of communication, understanding gender roles, and supporting men in caregiving. keywords fatherhood, gender roles, parenting, mental load, maternal gatekeeping, relationship dynamics, cultural shifts, caregiving, masculinity, family health key topics Changing roles of fathers and mothers Impact of societal and cultural shifts on parenting Maternal gatekeeping and paternal involvement The emotional and physical transformation of new dads The importance of communication in parenting partnerships guest name Darby Saxbe Titles The Future of Fatherhood: Embracing Care and Connection How Cultural Shifts Are Redefining Parenting Roles sound bites "Men are left out of the conversation." "Fatherhood is transformative for men." "We need to value care as a society." Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Dads in Parenting Dynamics 05:15 Transformative Experiences of Fatherhood 07:54 Understanding the Impact of Birth on Fathers 11:12 The Role of Meaning-Making in Parenting 11:41 The Crisis of Transitioning to Parenthood 13:59 Communication as a Key to Relationship Success 17:04 The Unique Role of Fathers in Child Development 19:50 The Evolution of Fatherhood Roles 22:45 The Future of Parenting Dynamics 26:58 The Role of Oxytocin in Parenting 27:52 Cultural Influences on Parenting Styles 30:30 Navigating Parental Expectations and Child Development 31:56 Changing Representations of Fathers in Media 35:52 Evolving Masculinity and Parenting Roles 40:04 The Importance of Male Role Models in Caregiving 43:31 Valuing Care in Society 46:45 Understanding Modern Parenting Challenges resources Darby Saxbe's Book on Parenthood and Gender Roles - https://www.amazon.com/Parenthood-Gender-Roles-Darby-Saxbe/dp/XXXXXX Richard Reeves' Work on Fatherhood and Masculinity - https://www.thelondonreview.com/richard-reeves-fatherhood Star Wars and Cultural Depictions of Fathers - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XXXXXX The Mandalorian Series - https://www.disneyplus.com/series/the-mandalorian/XXXXXX Studies on Oxytocin and Parenting - https://www.researchgate.net/publication/XXXXXX