S4E19: Don't Write Your Essay Yet (Start Here Instead)

In this episode of the Admittedly Podcast, host Thomas Caleel takes a step back from structure and word count to focus on what matters most when writing your college essay: the story itself. It's that time of year when the pressure to write "the perfect essay" starts to build—but before you start typing, you need a clear foundation.

This episode is all about helping you find your story, understand what colleges are really looking for, and begin your essay process with clarity and confidence.

Key Takeaways:

• Your Story Is the Only Story That Matters: The Common App essay isn't a report or a resume. It's a moment of insight—into you. Don't chase a prompt or a gimmick. Don't copy the essays you see online. Start with self-reflection and honesty.
• Don't Just Tell—Show: One of the biggest mistakes students make is summarizing their growth instead of illustrating it. Let the reader walk through the moment with you. Use specifics. Invite them in.
• Simple Is Powerful: Admissions officers are reading hundreds of essays. If your voice is authentic and clear, it will stand out. Avoid over-complicating your structure or language. Let your story breathe.
• No Trauma Required: The best essays aren't necessarily dramatic. Many standout essays are grounded in small moments—written with heart, self-awareness, and intention.
• How Do You Find Your Topic? Through deep reflection. We share some of the key questions to ask yourself as you start the process, and real-life examples of students who transformed ordinary experiences into extraordinary essays.

Writing your essay isn't about finding a magic formula—it's about getting to the heart of who you are. If you're just getting started, this episode will help you build a strong foundation for everything that follows.

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